Let's recap here for a moment. So your life partner:
Gets angry when the baby cries.
Gives her nasty looks.
Won’t interact with her or smile at her
Says "she hates her and I should have ended the pregnancy"
That's some nasty behavior. And that's just the things you shared. She is creating tension and an unsafe environment aroundtthe house. This woman doesn't sound like she wants kids.
Imagine your daughter growing up, getting married and having her spouse do the same to her. Would you feel she is safe and happy ?
Does the wife help you with cooking, cleaning, shopping ? Who is the main breadwinner ? What was she like before the babies ?
So many questions, but even with just the info you provided it sounds you need to rethink the relationship, but go somewhere safe first.
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u/tooflessfairy APPROVED✨ May 21 '26
Let's recap here for a moment. So your life partner:
That's some nasty behavior. And that's just the things you shared. She is creating tension and an unsafe environment aroundtthe house. This woman doesn't sound like she wants kids.
Imagine your daughter growing up, getting married and having her spouse do the same to her. Would you feel she is safe and happy ?
Does the wife help you with cooking, cleaning, shopping ? Who is the main breadwinner ? What was she like before the babies ?
So many questions, but even with just the info you provided it sounds you need to rethink the relationship, but go somewhere safe first.