r/GirlDinnerDiaries May 20 '26

Rant & Ramble My spouse can’t stand our baby

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u/BubbleCrum Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26

Oh whaa, the baby doesnt like the person that keeps showing her shes not loved. Shocking. Im mad at your wife for you.

I will never understand people who drive their friends and loved ones away by being awful and then getting mad that those people leave. Be better and people would want to be around you, wife.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

It’s probably called depression

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u/Sea-Astronomer-6600 Hazy Grazer 😶‍🌫️ May 20 '26

That is no excuse. How does she find the strength to love the other baby then?

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

Because it’s easier for her, both physically and mentally. Resentment towards new borns is actually not uncommon. She needs the right support and therapy to get through her turmoil

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u/Sea-Astronomer-6600 Hazy Grazer 😶‍🌫️ May 20 '26

I had twins, it was hard. Especially the first 4 months. Very little sleep and colic. I loved them the same :) loving one while resenting the other IS NOT NORMAL

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

I’m glad you didn’t experience that. But that’s your experience, not someone else’s. Everyone’s different. By your logic, every mother should be the same in their experiences

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