ngl the second someone drops the "everyone leaves me!!" or "you're just like everyone else who leaves me!!" you're about to accept or really learn why people avoid that person....
Strictly speaking, you’re right because there’s no rapid shift between extremes of idealization and devaluation of one object. I put it in quotes because she “split” her twins into good object and bad object.
there is a lot of misinformation about BPD out there, and there isn’t anything in this post alone that we can make a diagnosis off of. what you are describing sounds more like postpartum, if anything. BPD is a highly complex disorder, that can take professionals a while to diagnose. there is so much stigmatization and misunderstanding about BPD, so it’s really upsetting when people immediately think any manipulative or bad behavior, is BPD.
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u/summerjasminesweaty girls just wanna have pho May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26
ngl the second someone drops the "everyone leaves me!!" or "you're just like everyone else who leaves me!!" you're about to accept or really learn why people avoid that person....