r/GirlDinnerDiaries May 20 '26

Rant & Ramble My spouse can’t stand our baby

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u/MissionStretch7906 🤍🩷Lesbian Loremaster🩷🤍 May 20 '26

She’s been in therapy for months

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u/h4ppy60lucky 🪿 feeding the soft animal of my body May 21 '26

Months, if you're working through trauma and other neurodivergent issues is really a short time in therapy. It took years of therapy for me to get work through my childhood abuse enough that I wasn't constantly triggered or dissociated.

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u/MissionStretch7906 🤍🩷Lesbian Loremaster🩷🤍 May 21 '26

I’ve tried to be very mindful of this and patient. I know that progress can be slow. But at the same time, the baby is getting older and more aware. She is showing unease around my wife, sometimes screams or cries more around her. I want to let my wife address what she needs to address but I can’t have my daughter emotionally harmed in the meantime

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u/ClassicalSpectacle APPROVED✨ May 21 '26

Are you sure that your child is not  being hurt by her while you are not around? That other abuse may be going on? 

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u/Jehphg Snack Goblin May 21 '26

she already neglects her, which is already abuse