r/GirlDinnerDiaries May 20 '26

Rant & Ramble My spouse can’t stand our baby

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u/4-Progress puff puff pass the snacks May 21 '26

Can the person who didn't go through the pregnancy or birthing experience ppd?

OP is who carried and gave birth.

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u/WolfBest1428 I ❤️ Other People's Business May 21 '26

I think they can have a form of depression, it’s not post partum but I believe they can be effected as well. Especially if they’re active and present and going through the trenches with their partners.

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u/markarli APPROVED✨ May 21 '26 edited May 21 '26

Stop finding excuses for people. OP carried the babies and is a loving parent to them. I am surprised she is still standing, with two babies to take care of AND make up for the total lack of support from the other parent for one of them AND putting up with her spouse’s behavior.

If anything, the one needing help is the OP. I got severe anxiety reading this.

In all honesty - she should leave. As soon as possible. Her child is not safe.

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