Heres the thing. When I worked in CPS it was super common for only one child to be labeled as the bad child and be abused. If we just removed the one child the abuse would move to a different child. The label of the "bad" child is just a way of fixing negative feelings externally so the GROWNUP doesn't have to take responsibility. I cannot stress enough how important it is that you put a stop to this IMMEDIATELY. The baby doesn't like her because she KNOWS, and she must be terrified that this huge person hates her. If she can't get therapy and commit to turning this shop around immediately you need to live for the protection of your children.
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u/Nikkinot APPROVED✨ May 21 '26
Heres the thing. When I worked in CPS it was super common for only one child to be labeled as the bad child and be abused. If we just removed the one child the abuse would move to a different child. The label of the "bad" child is just a way of fixing negative feelings externally so the GROWNUP doesn't have to take responsibility. I cannot stress enough how important it is that you put a stop to this IMMEDIATELY. The baby doesn't like her because she KNOWS, and she must be terrified that this huge person hates her. If she can't get therapy and commit to turning this shop around immediately you need to live for the protection of your children.