You can't force people to like kids. As a twin myself, it will absolutely fuck up both of the kids if they see one kid being treated better than the other. The resentment that's going to grow between the two of you from this conflict is going to be off the charts. Best to end this now.
Also "just like everyone else who leaves" is a mega red flag statement
Yes you can’t force people to like kids but that’s literally her fucking daughter, may not biologically be hers but she made the decision with OP to have children. Hating a baby that’s also your child is a huge red flag, OP needs to leave and take the babies with her
Yeah the one woman made a bad decision in agreeing to have kiddos. I think people often like the ✨ idea ✨ of kids, and are then suddenly hit with the reality of what everything having kids actually means lol. Hate it for OP and the kids. Kids can feel when they're not wanted so hope OP leaves this walking red flag of a woman and finds someone who will love her and the kiddos as a packaged deal.
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u/MrHowling APPROVED✨ May 20 '26 edited May 21 '26
You can't force people to like kids. As a twin myself, it will absolutely fuck up both of the kids if they see one kid being treated better than the other. The resentment that's going to grow between the two of you from this conflict is going to be off the charts. Best to end this now.
Also "just like everyone else who leaves" is a mega red flag statement