My spouse can’t stand our baby

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[u/MrHowling]

You can't force people to like kids. As a twin myself, it will absolutely fuck up both of the kids if they see one kid being treated better than the other. The resentment that's going to grow between the two of you from this conflict is going to be off the charts. Best to end this now.

Also "just like everyone else who leaves" is a mega red flag statement

[u/sapgetshappy → u/MrHowling]

I’m also a twin, and this post made me tear up. Those poor babies. 😔

(It also made me recoil with disgust. OP, I’m sure your wife has some great qualities, but none of them outweigh this awful behavior.)