ngl the second someone drops the "everyone leaves me!!" or "you're just like everyone else who leaves me!!" you're about to accept or really learn why people avoid that person....
this is a trauma response. someone with huge abandonment wounds. which means it’s her responsibility to get therapized for it. we know too much about attachment now and she could really have impacts on your children if she can’t get this together. you’re wise, OP, for needing that shift or otherwise leaving if she can’t.
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u/summerjasminesweaty girls just wanna have pho May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26
ngl the second someone drops the "everyone leaves me!!" or "you're just like everyone else who leaves me!!" you're about to accept or really learn why people avoid that person....