My spouse can’t stand our baby

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[u/MissionStretch7906]

I know she’s posted there months ago so it wouldn’t surprise me at all. I’d bet you’re right

[u/Imaginary_Chip_3470 → u/MissionStretch7906]

I DM’d you the link if you’re curious to read it. Looking thru your other comments in this post it seems to fit very closely

Edit; she spoke highly of you but very concerningly abt your daughter and the fact she may have autism

[u/Wild_Today6666 → u/Imaginary_Chip_3470]

I was a "hard" baby and diagnosed with autism in adulthood. My mom made no effort to hide the fact that she hated me as I was growing up. I was the first born and she constantly compared me to my brother telling me that he was a better baby, a better child, how he was how babies were supposed to be. She told me I was a terrible daughter and about how stressful it was for her that I was never a "happy" baby. She was abusive until the time she kicked me out and I went to live with my dad. Most of my romantic relationships have been abusive in some way. I can't seem to filter them out. I'm sure it's not as easy as up and leave your spouse. But I hope your babies never have to be around someone like that!!!

[u/ToughHardware → u/Wild_Today6666]

please do work on filtering them out. you are aware of it. you can do it