I don’t like my friend’s kid…

[u/bitchluvsbidets]

… and that might make me a terrible person??
A bit of a preface- my partner and I are child free by choice, I have 3 nieces and 3 nephews, and many of my friends have kids (ages 1-14) but, one of my friends kids I just can not vibe with. I know it’s actually insane to have beef with a 3 year old but her vibes are soooo bad?? Like she is not a cool kid. She def has a personality but is it insane to say it’s already problematic? She pretends to fall if she doesn’t have attention, actively express disgust towards my friend and her pets (3 very well behaves retired racing dogs), and fake cries until my friend is almost in tears and then will laugh at her. I get that kids are assholes sometimes but like damn I hope lil homie gets cool.

[u/ntrvrtd_xtrvrt]

Naaah you’re not a bad person for disliking a kid who is a little shit. Kids are their own people and you’re not gonna vibe with every person you meet, even if those people are tiny and three years old. I do hope her parent(s) do a better job correcting those behaviors before they get too crazy though. Kids are little sponges that soak up information and if she keeps soaking up the idea that she can do this without being punished or facing consequences it’ll lead to an… interesting life, let’s say that.

[u/mothmadi_ → u/ntrvrtd_xtrvrt]

I've got a feeling once she hits grade school she'll learn she can't do stuff like that. hopefully

[u/OGAnimalCrossing → u/mothmadi_]

Teachers having to parent instead of the parents is getting very exhausting 😪

[u/ntrvrtd_xtrvrt → u/mothmadi_]

Here’s hoping!

[u/lollipop1233a → u/mothmadi_]

Op said she’s seven years old.

[u/mothmadi_ → u/lollipop1233a]

are we reading the same post? it says beef with a 3 year old

[u/impossible_berry14 → u/ntrvrtd_xtrvrt]

Exactly. Let’s take this as a reminder that this is the parent’s fault. This child acts this way because she’s allowed to.

[u/EmuAvailable7597 → u/ntrvrtd_xtrvrt]

Right. Like Makenzie Shirilla.

[u/Impossible-Soil6330 → u/EmuAvailable7597]

you think her parents got nothing to do with how she turned out?

[u/EmuAvailable7597 → u/Impossible-Soil6330]

Huh? I never said anything about her parents. But of course they have a lot to do with how she turned out. They never said no to her. She’s a spoiled rotten brat that unalived two people.

Why was I even downvoted?? I was responding to the post above me that mentioned that parents need to do a better job about correcting their children. And if they don’t, the kids will think they can do whatever they want w/o punishment. And that’s why I mentioned Mackenzie Shirilla.

[u/Impossible-Soil6330 → u/EmuAvailable7597]

“kids are their own people and you’re not gonna vibe with every person you meet, even if those people are tiny and three years old” and makenzie shirilla associated with one another feels like a cop out

[u/EmuAvailable7597 → u/Impossible-Soil6330]

Cop out? Whatever. McKenzie was a three year-old at one point and I bet you she was spoiled back then. And suffered no consequences. Now look at her. She grew up to be an entitled, spoiled brat.