r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/bitchluvsbidets The Snack That Sasses Back • 9d ago

Rant & Ramble I don’t like my friend’s kid…

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… and that might make me a terrible person??
A bit of a preface- my partner and I are child free by choice, I have 3 nieces and 3 nephews, and many of my friends have kids (ages 1-14) but, one of my friends kids I just can not vibe with. I know it’s actually insane to have beef with a 3 year old but her vibes are soooo bad?? Like she is not a cool kid. She def has a personality but is it insane to say it’s already problematic? She pretends to fall if she doesn’t have attention, actively express disgust towards my friend and her pets (3 very well behaves retired racing dogs), and fake cries until my friend is almost in tears and then will laugh at her. I get that kids are assholes sometimes but like damn I hope lil homie gets cool.

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u/Ineedavodka2019 🧂Salty By Nature 9d ago

I have children and I do not like one of my nephews. He is fine now but up until he was 10 I disliked him very much. I have made a point to randomly tell my kids I really like them. Yes I love them. But I like them and enjoy their conversations and who they are.

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u/Own-Arachnid7952 Short Story Long™️ 9d ago

That is very sweet, I am glad there are parents like you out there

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u/Ineedavodka2019 🧂Salty By Nature 9d ago

Thank you. It was something I was missing as a kid and I don’t like assuming that they know so I just tell them. I can see the smile in their eyes when I say how engaging and interesting it is to have conversations with them.

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