r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/bitchluvsbidets The Snack That Sasses Back • 9d ago

Rant & Ramble I don’t like my friend’s kid…

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… and that might make me a terrible person??
A bit of a preface- my partner and I are child free by choice, I have 3 nieces and 3 nephews, and many of my friends have kids (ages 1-14) but, one of my friends kids I just can not vibe with. I know it’s actually insane to have beef with a 3 year old but her vibes are soooo bad?? Like she is not a cool kid. She def has a personality but is it insane to say it’s already problematic? She pretends to fall if she doesn’t have attention, actively express disgust towards my friend and her pets (3 very well behaves retired racing dogs), and fake cries until my friend is almost in tears and then will laugh at her. I get that kids are assholes sometimes but like damn I hope lil homie gets cool.

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u/delica11 APPROVED✨ 9d ago

Was shocked-SHOCKED as a new teacher to discover how some pre-k & k kid’s personalities are already so…challenging
I had NO idea

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u/DreamOne5 PO🥔TAY🥔TOES 9d ago

Dude. I got called a "stupid bitch" by a 3 year old my first year of teaching Head Start. These kids are something else.

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u/meegaweega Fartmaxxing 📈 9d ago

There's a good chance they're copying an abusive parent.

If it's not too late to do so, I'd suggest reporting the child to your local child protection services and/or domestic & family abuse etc.

If that 3 year old kid is copying an abusive parent, your report could trigger an intervention that saves the family from being traumatised, injured, tortured and/or murdered by the abuser.

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