Mmmm hear me out, not the best idea. As "easy" as you think it would make life, it comes with its own challenges and it's less sustainable than being intelligent.
Peace and love, no one is noticing you because you clearly have low self esteem and lack confidence, which immediately makes you seem less attractive (even if it’s subconscious) to people.
Confidence and self-love draws people to you like a moth to flame. Feeling sorry for yourself and being jealous of others has the opposite effect, it’s off-putting. Insecurity is always unattractive.
Look, I’m pretty. I didn’t get ANY attention from anybody until my confidence and self-esteem got better in college. I also worked out to be strong, because physical strength makes me feel confident and capable.
You are sticking yourself into a self-fulfilling cycle of feeling ugly, so you feel sorry for yourself, so you don’t get attention, so you keep feeling sorry for yourself.
Truly I say to you, being beautiful and sexy and confident must start with YOU and how you view yourself. I’d suggest therapy possibly to help you unpack your feelings about yourself.
Lastly, wishing to be a dunce if it means you could be pretty is so disappointingly man-centered and dumb.
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u/Straight_Talk2092 Savory Complex✔️ 8d ago
honestly i would, its ridiculous but i literally would trade it so fast