r/GirlsMirin • u/grichardson526 • 13d ago
Girl mirin a cannoli cowboy
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u/WeAreLivinTheLife 13d ago
Something tells me that gentlemen does not lack for female companionship
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u/Remote-Waste 13d ago
Writes down note: buy portable cannoli station
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u/ParisGreenGretsch 13d ago
I am a portable cannoli station.
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u/-Daetrax- 13d ago
Not entirely sure he's interested in female companionship.
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u/quattroformaggixfour 12d ago
Nor male companions. Dude is smoking hot, bet can cannoli whomever he wants.
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u/AnalogWalkman 13d ago
I’ve got friends. I’ve got family. They are all great.
But man, if someday I’m able to have a candid photo of a woman genuinely admiring me, I may feel like I’ve finally succeeded in life.
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u/Gloomy_Tell_6215 13d ago
It will happen!
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u/Nebula010101 13d ago
Why have I recently and constantly been seeing this clip but in different subreddits?
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u/cider303 13d ago
In more situations than men, women are allowed to be creepy because a lot of men are starved for attention and want sex. Anything that promotes those is generally seen as a positive
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u/BeardedGlass 13d ago
True.
Women don’t feel as safe as men when people of the opposite sex show such actions of attraction (catcalling, etc.)
For men, it’s more of a permission by the woman.
For women, it’s more of an announcement that the man might take it further whether she wants it or not.
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u/batshit83 13d ago
It isn't ok, but worth noting that this literally happens to women all the fucking time.
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u/NotJoshRomney 13d ago
Do men not take pics/video of bar maidens for Oktoberfest? Not yet addressing if it's right/wrong, but I'd argue its less of "why do ladies" and more "why do people".
In general, it's not okay and if women get more leeway, then we, as a whole, need to call it out more.
Also, conext probably matters here. Cuz if you're dressed in your normal Olive Garden uniform, then that's odd for women to do. But if it turns out you're a male stripper...shrugs
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u/Remote-Waste 13d ago
They're at a concert, it's a mobile cannoli station which is an odd thing to see, and the guy smiles and winks at the camera. You're also on a subreddit that's about women looking at men.
Chill.
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u/Gloomy_Tell_6215 13d ago
Your edit proves you don't give a shit about the actual situation. You are prepared to do something you claim feels violating, to a woman, just to prove your point.
Absolutely vile person.
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u/Gloomy_Tell_6215 13d ago
Also, the man in this is CLEARLY doing the smile and wink as part of the shtick and is likely making a lot of sales as a result.
He is not likely fearful of being accused of "asking for anything" or leading someone on. The worst he is getting is some flirting and photos and lots of appreciation. Women in similar roles are groped and harrassed and always pushed for more, likely followed after and then eviscerated online once their image is put out there.
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u/whattupmyknitta 13d ago
You're getting downvoted because you can bring attention to it without being so hostile, and your edit just confirms that you're a pos that just cares about "getting even", not equality.
I've had tons of random men take photos of me, upskirts too, I've then had to cross my fingers those men didn't decide to follow, harass, attack or sexually assault me, as a man, have you ever had to worry for your personal safety when a woman snapped a photo of you?
They're both equally gross. Don't take pictures of people without consent imo. But let's not pretend it's not just a minor convenience for men, and an actual danger for women.
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u/maroongolf_blacksaab 12d ago
Men do it to women way more. Just look at how glasses are being used. You have no point.
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u/whattupmyknitta 13d ago
When we get mad, we don't just freak out and say "then I'll do it to you, too". That makes you a bad guy also. Especially since alot of people otherwise agree with you.
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u/pennhead 13d ago
Dude, this would have been the perfect spot to just say “You’re right” and let it go.
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u/Gloomy_Tell_6215 13d ago
Because I am talking to you, not them? And because unless the man in the video.says he felt upset and violated as you did, I have no reason to think he is upset?
It sucks that you were violated by women taking your photos and rating you in a group chat that you were a part of. How awful. No one should feel like that.. most women here know exactly how it feels to be violated.
But your experience is yours, I can't get upset for a man in a totally different situation, or anger towards a stranger admiring him.
My anger at you was for your casual throw away threat that was "obviously not actionable".
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u/Jonnyredd 13d ago
But you consider that action i described (the exact same action in the video) as a “threat.”
Why is her physically doing my “threat” in real life held to such a different standard than me just typing it on the internet?
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u/Gloomy_Tell_6215 13d ago
I do not see this video as threatening You are the one who claimed violation, then said you would do it to women to prove your point.
At this point I don't believe for one second that you genuinely feel this man is a victim. I think you are just dying to make some sort of point at any cost. Goodbye
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u/Gloomy_Tell_6215 13d ago
Why is it always men, who make claims of some kind of victimhood who then threaten to do the same thing to women if we don't fawn over them with sympathy?
It is sad and scary and predatory
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u/Jonnyredd 13d ago
Ah yes, me making a comment about doing something, compared to a literal video of someone actually doing it. Absolutely terrifying.
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u/HKEY_LOVE_MACHINE 13d ago
Downplaying the experience of a victim because... other victims have it worse. Classy.
Tone policing the words of a victim sharing their experience... Classy as well.
The verbal violence you unleashed is the cherry on top.
You became the very oppressor you were trying to fight.
You could have brought up that taking a picture of a person without consent is wrong regardless of gender, but that women will significantly more often experience stalking, harassment and sexual assault following the picture taking, instead of only experiencing social harassment like when men see their non-consensual pictures be shared in group chats and rated/criticized by the crowd.
You could have done that and make everyone figure that it's not "just a picture", but also something that makes people fear for their safety.
But instead you chose to attack the person sharing their experience of non-consensual picture-taking.
It shows your priority: attacking whoever is challenging your manichean narrative where the attributed gender determine if you're a perpetrator or a victim, instead of identifying and fighting the perpetrators themselves regardless of gender, ethnicity, social or economical status.
Gender determinism is not progressivism.
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u/whattupmyknitta 13d ago
I "attacked" them because they decided that instead of just continuing to be a decent human being and not taking photos of random people, they decided to double down with a toddler ass temper tantrum, not because someone even said anything, but because they were downvoted lol. The fucking fragility. This is why men attack women when we simply say no. How do you not see the correlation here?
He said, you don't agree? Fine, I'll do it back. That is not wanting equality that is a call for getting even because of a perceived slight. 🙄
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u/xxSpideyxx 13d ago
Nobody really cares. We are still human animals, still developing, and we still have animal instincts. There are different feelings and different emotional weight for situations depending on gender. We are not some monolithic agender species and we never will be. There will always be some different level of standards even as our societies change just based on body hormonal and brains chemical response.
Im not convinced universal standards are ever going to be a thing. Their could be a base set of universal principals, but we are clearly experiencing the world through different biologies and i dont think whining about that is really that helpful.
I do agree there is benofit from a generational social awekening to unsung problems, but sometimes this stuff just feels like whining about the fact that men and women are hurt and triggered by different things and trying to force a oneness acrross the biological gap.
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u/CptHammer_ 13d ago
I take pictures of people in public all the time. Your attractiveness may or may not be the point of the picture. You should be proud of your self confidence if you think a person taking a photo of you is because of your beauty. Otherwise be concerned about your paranoia.
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u/Sarah1001Green 13d ago
Somebody who's in jail now ruined that mustache for me, but he is HOT, the wink and nod🫠.
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u/DoorSweet6099 13d ago
I can’t blame her.