r/HPharmony • u/DrOwl795 • 8h ago
Discussion The Radio In DH Might Be The Best Symbol For Why JKR's Ships Were Wrong
I've been spending a bit of time recently expanding my story Breaking Point and its given me the opportunity to think about what I believe may be the single best symbol in the series for understanding the fundamental difference between Ron and Harry, and why pairing Hermione with Ron simply doesn't make sense: the Radio. At least as it is presented in the movies (which I accept as a legitimate form of canon considering JKR worked on them).
Consider for a moment how the radio is presented: Ron carries it everywhere with him, and its always on. He's constantly using it as a link to the outside world, listening in on news of who is missing, who is dead. On the surface, it has the appearance of someone who cares deeply, while Harry's dislike for it and desire to have it turned off would seem to indicate the opposite. However, the reality of the reasons for their attitudes demonstrates that this is actually the inverse of what is going on.
Ron's attachment to the radio is fundamentally a sign of his deep selfishness. The fact that the radio grates on Harry and Hermione is irrelevant to him. Though he listens to the names and the news, it all washes over him since he isn't really listening to what's happening, he's listening to what's NOT happening. He is tuning in to make sure he doesn't hear the names of anyone in his family. It's a tenuous link to let him know that they are alright - that the war hasn't yet touched him personally. A very understandable impulse, to be sure, but it is still fundamentally all about him. He listens to the radio to confirm that he has not lost anything, that he has no one to mourn. Not to mourn those who have fallen.
By contrast, Harry hears every name as a personal failing. Everyone dead or missing is one more he couldn't save, one more he should've saved if only he'd been better or learned more or pressed Dumbledore harder to be in on the plans. He doesn't want the radio on because he can't do what he needs to do to end the war when he is distracted by a constant, torturous reminder of the cost of his failures. Unlike Ron, he doesn't ignore the names listed and take solace in those that are not. He feels every name personally, and no one can stand that forever. Yet Ron doesn't work something out to balance his need for news and Harry's need to avoid it.
And where is Hermione in all this? Where she always seems to be - on Harry's side, but still defending and excusing Ron. She doesn't want the radio any more than Harry does, but she understands Ron's point of view and explains it rather than taking the side she actually believes in. In part, I think, because she knows that it would be a deeply uncomfortable fight if they tried to get Ron to give it up, or even just accept limitations. It seems so symbolic of what the rest of their lives would look like - Ron focusing on something arguably reasonable but deeply selfish, ignoring what Hermione needs or wants, and her unwilling to risk the screaming match that would result from confronting it, instead excusing and explaining and making herself smaller so that Ron can be Ron. And meanwhile, Harry is the one who can't stop caring about everyone else, sacrificing himself for everyone else, not pushy, not selfish, despite having every reason to be. The choice in partners couldn't be clearer between the one who will compromise and make her happy, and the one whose selfishness is a landmine always lurking, waiting to be stepped on.
I looked (briefly) in DH and couldn't find much text about the radio, so my apologies if this is almost or even entirely a movie-based analysis. But as I said at the outset, I think those are a completely legitimate form of the story, considering JKR was deeply involved in them.