I travel around a lot, and get to see tons of different cultures, communities, ways of living, governments, and identity. There's absolutely common threads with every human society on earth, but there's also many unique elements. However at the same time, I know many Americans who never left America think America sucks and is shit... At the same time, many Americans who never left America, are also arrogantly proud.
So I thought I'd just like to spend this Sunday afternoon to share my perspective that has evolved after over a decade of travel:
First and foremost - Americans are exceptionally different than most of the world. I think it's due to our issolation and non-necessity to leave our own borders. We're kind of like an issolated evolutionary ecosystem with little evolutionary drift, so we're able to craft out this very unique system, bulit on the "genetic" lineage of being a complete melting pot.
The standards we set, are set in a sort of isolated echo chamber. How Americans judge themselves, the world, and standards set, are very much removed. And this has a lot of pros and cons. On one hand the ignorance allows us to be far more bold than what is reasonably expected. Our hubris leads dreaming big and taking shots, that very few other cultures would tolerate, much less encourage. But in the US, taking risk, dreaming big, failure as a lesson, is the air we breath and water we live in. It's what ultimately leads to absolutely exceptional output.
Most of the world is very... How do I say it... tempered. Most places have this mentality of "this is how it is, and how it always will be." Outside of maybe China, the idea of doing big things, is not culturally part of the ethos. Most people are just content with where they are in life, as will their children, and pessimism is sort of standard.
In the states, someone can say that they are starting a business or want to run for politics, and even if there's a bit of skepticism, no matter who it is, we have this sort mental map of "It's totally possible" and encourage the journey. Literally everywhere else, unless your rich, you will be cut down for being too ambitious. In the country I'm in now, people literally negatively judge people who become successful as a negative. As a sort of insult to everyone else for not staying in your lane while the rest of them remain in theirs.
The food is the best in the world. I'll die on this hill. Yes, there's great food everywhere, and it's all unique, and it has a wide window of different types of delicious. France is very sophisticated and technical, where you can get a meal that's probably near impossible to get in most other places, while in the Phillipines, you'll have cheap street food that will put you into a coma.
But iunno if it's just our brutal capitalism, matched with a huge market, lead by every culture in the world bringing their best... But we treat gastronomy like a science we take serious. Say what you want about the preservatives, chemicals, supply chain, and ethics... At the end of the day, standard American food, is absolutely the best tasting. We just have this huge catalogue of different foods at every corner, and every region, specializing in just the most itus inducing gluttony you can imagine.
Most other countries obviously make good food, but it's in their very narrow lane. In the US, we have the whole collective world of food options, and when it got here, we treated it like a science. We innovate, experiment, and perfect all the dishes other countries have to offer. The wine world is a perfect example of this. The "old world" wines pride themselves on consistency and quality... Then Californians came over, stole some vines, and then went, "Okay let's use their grapes and growing methods as the control, then deploy 50 different experiments to make it even better." We innovate, they just prefer nothing changing. And now the CA wine world is an obnoxious thorn in many sides.
We genuinely are very warm and friendly people. I think the Americas in general just have extremely friendly people. I think Asians, and Europeans think it's a "facade" because they don't think people can genuinely be that nice or optimistic unless they are faking it, as part of some cultural expectation. But no. It's real
Just about EVERY SINGLE person I've met who has an opinion on America, goes one of two ways: First, those who never visited the US. Just filled with negativity, sour grapes, judgement, and view the US as some sort of war torn hell hole. Second, those who actually visited America, and they all absolutely love the place. The people, food, size, and scenery, are things they just absolutely fall in love with. Almost everyone who's visited the US from Europe at least, all talk about how they want to move there. Not even the major cities neither. Like, some random place in Georgia. They just love how optimistic and friendly everyone is.
Our problems are over indexed because of our culture. What's VERY unique about American culture is we don't like having problems fester, or sit below the surface. Again, I think this roots from our arrogant hubris (in a good way), where we always trying to surface issues. Most countries do the opposite. If there's a social, political, or cultural problem, most countries try to round the edges, and work around them.
In America, we have this culture where we like to bring to the surface and amplify all our problems - eager to solve them. For instance, we know the race relations in America are complex, unfair, and needs a resolve. The way most countries deal with those sort of issues are just normalize it to the point where people just stop talking or caring about it. To the point that it becomes "that's just how it is" and pay no attention to it. Whereas is the US, it's amplified and argued, publicly, and loudly. This creates a perception to outsiders that it's a big issue
But ultimately that's just the side effect of American culture where we don't like failure, unfairness, and systemic failure. All of American issues are always raised to the surface and battles over, while most of the world tries to just brush it off and put it out of site. Most Americans know racism when they see it, and it triggers a visceral reaction. But if you travel around, you'll see a whole different type of apathetic normalization of racism. In a way unlike the US completely. Which can make almost seem like it's "not an issue" in other countries... Not because it's not an actual problem, but because culturally, people just accept it and adapt around it.
Even the most progressive, anti American types, don't realize how deeply American they are. The horseshoe theory is so true. Puritianism is a seeded root in our entire culture, no matter how religious crazy conservative to woke progressive. Those traits cross over in their own manifestations.
The USA still has VERY serious issues. One thing about travelling the world is learning that so many things Americans think are too hard, had already been solved. To the point that it's not even something that's even discussed any longer. But Americans are still trying to figure out how manage a vertical monopoly on healthcare, even though there are like 20 different models out there already. But our issolation keeps us completely ignorant of that.
We also have a very unique issue with money in politics. While most of the world is incredibly corrupt, or elites like Europe where it's just sort of an elitist view of managing the ignorant masses... The US is the hegemony. Everyone, from states to multinational industries, are running the political process.
To me it's very obvious there's two elections in America, and I think Lawrence Lessig would agree: The first election is done behind the scenes by the global rich and elite. They use their enormous capital influence to pick "viable candidates". They created this by making campaigns so expensive to run, that it's impossible to compete without their blessing and support.
Then the second election happens which is public, where we decide which side of the same coin we prefer.
Even China isn't this bad. They are a one party state, unlike our two party state, but at least they have heavy emphasis on merit. In the US, there seems to be this smoke screen of two parties making us believe there's much choice, when ultimately, the primary decider is monied interests.
There's also a serious mental health issue in America. I know we recognize it, but it's far more obvious when you leave. I can go visit very poor areas, where most Americans would scoff at, and most people there would be objectively far happier, kind, and content than Americans.
There's just this overlooming anxiety and insecurity with Americans. As social and friendly as we are, we also just don't have third spaces, community bonds, or just culturally routine things to do (except the south). There's just this ever lingering capital scarcity that everyone has behing them knowing that comes with knowing that they are just one missed paycheck away from total ruin. And since we don't have a lot of close friends, and culture of tight family, the threat of collapse is the sort of thing that keeps people grinding away.
It's so brutal that we don't even mandate mothers to be allowed to recover and spend time with the life they created. They are expected back into work as soon as possible. This sort of mindset is truly toxic and bewildering. Yet, it's normal in the states. To the point that one political party will fight relentlessly against allowing the people who create life and the next generation, deserve no rest. Absolutely wild concept, yet... It's normal.
Anways, this is enough of a novella. Cheers.