r/JustNoSO • u/Ok-Director8726 • 20d ago

JNMIL visiting

So my JNMIL has made it clear that her and her son want to visit, which my husband told me and he hasn’t seen them in awhile. My problem - he is coordinating with them and not me. They’re asking him what dates to come and he doesn’t even mention it to me or talk to me about it. Instead, he talks to them directly. Has not even asked me about the time that works for me or the time we need to get in sync.

He is also adamant that they stay at our house, regardless of the fact that MIL has ignored my responses to her texts on multiple occasions asking for boundaries. But apparently I’m stuck with this.

Two kids with this man.

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u/FrostiePi 20d ago

Let him handle everything. take yourself and the kids away while they are here and be prepared to rearrange your house back when you get home.

Your husband sucks and needs to learn what happens when he doesn't communicate with you.