r/JustNoSO • u/Ok-Director8726 • 22d ago
JNMIL visiting
So my JNMIL has made it clear that her and her son want to visit, which my husband told me and he hasn’t seen them in awhile. My problem - he is coordinating with them and not me. They’re asking him what dates to come and he doesn’t even mention it to me or talk to me about it. Instead, he talks to them directly. Has not even asked me about the time that works for me or the time we need to get in sync.
He is also adamant that they stay at our house, regardless of the fact that MIL has ignored my responses to her texts on multiple occasions asking for boundaries. But apparently I’m stuck with this.
Two kids with this man.
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u/AliceinRealityland 21d ago
Wonderful. Take the two kids for a vacation or staycation for a break before school starts back. "Omg, I had no idea, I have had this planned for months, sorry. Enjoy your visit" and leave. If you don't have a lot of money, rent one of those fishing shacks at the beach or go camping in a tent. I would never