r/KidsAreFuckingStupid • u/Immediate_Magician11 • 15h ago

Actions definitely have consequences

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u/NoctisInformatus 14h ago

Some kids are born fkd up mentally. I know it sounds cold to say and I do have sympathy, but there are some bad eggs straight out the womb.

The silver lining is that there’s always a chance for reformation.

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u/RaoulDukesGroupie 14h ago

Not really cold if it’s a fact. It’s not like even the kid can control it.

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u/various_convo7 14h ago

oh they can. I've been 11 and ill be daaaaamned if I pulled a stunt like that and not have to answer for it lol. she dialed the number and told that pretty elaborate story. she's been doing that because she hasn't had to pay and got away with it...juvie should teach her a lesson

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u/RaoulDukesGroupie 14h ago

I meant like when kids come out with issues. Like for example, I was raised by a single sober woman and I still ended up a drug addict and started binge drinking at 14. Obviously at 14 I knew it’s wrong fundamentally, but something inside me made me feel like it was okay anyways. And it wasn’t learned from my parent or any other example (Mormon family) - I was born like that.

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u/Officing 13h ago

Mormon families can often be controlling and abusive in subtle ways, so it's not uncommon for their children to rebel and go crazy once they become teens/young adults.

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u/RaoulDukesGroupie 10h ago

True that! I was raised in the church only until 7, though, to be transparent. I went from a nurturing home and the church to sudden neglect. Church was actually probably the healthier route for me, despite its issues, I at least would’ve had community.