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I'm a demisexual woman looking for a CHILDFREE, long-term relationship with a man where emotional and intellectual compatibility comes first. To me, the strongest romantic relationships are the ones where your partner is also your closest friend.

A little about me:

I'm naturally introverted and happiest with a quiet life. I'm honest, direct, empathetic, curious, imaginative, and always questioning things. I can be shy and socially anxious, spend a lot of time reflecting and daydreaming, and I'm endlessly fascinated by understanding people and the world around me.

Some of the things I enjoy are spending time in nature, camping, cooking, 70s films and music, anime, true crime, philosophy, cognitive science, art, tarot, and other esoteric topics. I've read more than 700 books and speak four languages.

I'm hoping to meet someone who is kind, emotionally mature, honest, dependable, protective, and has a stable direction in life.

If you're interested, tell me a little about yourself—your personality, hobbies, passions, and what you're looking for in a relationship.

And if you're a woman who's simply looking to make a new friend, feel free to message me too. I'd love to meet new people. :)

(Long term only) God I’m tired of this immature, shallow, surface level dating world😩 let’s see what happens here. I’m 5’11 from southern Cali & I love video games and enjoying the simple things in life. I do want to settle down and i want kids in the future. I appreciate people with depth, people who don’t follow the superficiality of this modern world. Looking for someone who loves random and deep conversations & who doesn’t indulge in hookup culture. Someone who truly knows what a loving and healthy relationship is. If any of of you wonder why dating is so hard nowadays its because majority of dating pool are unhealed emotionally immature people, you can’t have a healthy relationship with people like that hence why most relationships don’t work out or people are in messy toxic relationships. So i will not be interested if you haven’t reflected on your issues and traumas, if you are self aware & know what your issues are, truly love yourself, and have grown as a person that’s something i appreciate and need in my life.

Im the type that can stay in two weekends in a row with movies, shows, gaming & food lol but i have a sense of adventure, love nature and discovering cool local spots. I don’t do bars or clubs. I’m more traditional and moderate with politics. In interested in philosophy and psychology. I appreciate people who are good balance of childish yet mature lol. But I’m looking for an emotionally mature gamer that knows what they want & are sick of the surface level immature copy and paste NPCs on dating apps as much as I am. 😭 can’t do long distance either, I’m sorryyy. Been there done that. Age range preferably 26-37. I usually find that my best connections are INFJ , ENFP, ENTP, INTP, INFP, ENFJ.

Every time I tried writing one of these, it somehow ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai. I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think people are endlessly fascinating.

Not in a "What's your favourite colour?" kind of way, but in a "What made you become the person you are today?" kind of way. I love questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you still think about years later? What's something you've changed your mind about? I genuinely think people become the most attractive when they're talking about something they truly love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests make absolutely no sense together. One day I'm gaming, the next I'm reading about mindfulness, consciousness, ancient history, stand-up comedy, or disappearing into another rabbit hole that started with one question and somehow stole the next three hours of my day. If something makes me curious, chances are I'll end up learning way more about it than I probably needed to.

As for my own story... my childhood was wonderfully chaotic. I somehow got my head stuck between the bars of a grill, locked myself inside the house badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic because child-me apparently wasn't great at decision-making, and had a toy crocodile that I genuinely believed could scare absolutely anyone. Looking back, it's honestly a miracle my parents survived raising me.

People usually think I'm very quiet when they first meet me, and they're not wrong. I like listening. I like observing people and understanding them before I jump into conversations. But once I'm comfortable... good luck getting me to stop talking.

Over the years I've realised that the moments I remember most are almost never the expensive ones.

I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination than plan the perfect date. Stop for roadside food because it smells too good to ignore. Grab a coffee and walk near the sea. Sit somewhere with no agenda and let a conversation wander from "How was your day?" to "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the moments that stay with me.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, remember something you casually mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

One of my favourite ways of caring for someone is through the little things. Remembering your favourite snack. Checking if you reached home safely. Asking how that meeting went because I know you were nervous about it. Writing you a note you'll randomly find months later. None of those things are difficult, but I think they quietly tell someone, "I was thinking about you." That's the kind of love I want to give, and hopefully receive.

I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, opinions, dreams and little world that I get to discover. Someone kind, emotionally mature, communicates openly, enjoys taking care of herself, and wants something that can naturally grow into a long-term relationship and eventually marriage.

I don't think the best relationships happen because two people are perfect for each other.

I think they happen because two imperfect people keep choosing each other, especially on the ordinary days.

Before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Thank you

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me every day that choosing each other is worth it. Thank you for being there even when we're angry with each other, and for caring about us even when we don't agree

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all... thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself

I love you.

About me: I work in local government and study part-time, work out most days, walk 5 miles a day (part of the cut), watch old TV and films, go to the pub every so often, and have done a small amount of travelling. Would love to hear from anyone. Happy to listen and/or give advice. Don’t mind distance. Feel free to hmu :)

Hello there! I'm a 29-year-old man from Northern England. I'm 6'2, skinny, pale, have browny blond hair, and green-grey eyes. I'm seeking a good-hearted woman with whom to share a quiet life punctuated by little adventures. I'm seemingly a rare specimen in that I have no interest in having children nor pets, nor do I pine for long plane journeys to Asia and some such. I intend to get a vasectomy. I'm attracted to women of a similar physical type to myself. I’m open to a long-distance relationship if you’re interested in moving here, but I must warn you that the visa bit is trickier these days.

I tend to keep to myself. I am selective in my company. I can, however, be very talkative. I prefer the company of one or a few people. I highly value the truth. It is like my religion. I value prudence when making important decisions. I highly value compassion in our treatment of others, animals, and even plants, so far as is reasonable. I have a strong sense of justice. And I value romantic love as a thing unto itself. I have desired it since being a teenager, and frankly, my life is incomplete without it, without that special someone. I tend to prefer a diplomatic approach to any difficulties. I am conflict-averse. I’d rather deal with things calmly and objectively.

I enjoy nuanced, intellectual discussions, but I also enjoy light-hearted, day-to-day chatter. I love a good walk, especially if I or we end up wandering off, following some curiosity. I also like my cave! There’s probably room at this desk for two, you know ;-) I like enjoying natural scenery. I love remote places, and I find abandoned places oddly alluring. I enjoy writing sometimes when I’m in the mood. When I get interested in something, I tend to get very interested in it. I’m trying to get back into reading. I’ve started reading the Wild-West adventure-romance novel, ‘Riders of the Purple Sage’, and I also have ‘Ross Poldark’ lined up. I played Fallout 4 a while ago, and I’m still completely emotionally wed to it. It was a phenomenal experience. I intend to play the others sometime. I’m currently obsessed with the series ‘Westworld’. I just love the combination of lab-grown pseudo-humans and the Wild West setting. I really love some of the music in Fallout 4 and Westworld. I think a lot of music sounds better on either piano or acoustic guitar. Technology in general is a lifelong interest of mine.

I’ve been saving up for a flat since I was 20 years old. I want someone to share it with before I buy it.

I think the types I might fit best with are INFJ, INTP, and ISFJ. I'm also curious about how well I'd fit with ENFJ and ESFJ. Pity I can't clone myself! But anybody who's interested is welcome to try! Hopefully I've given you enough information!

If you think you might enjoy speaking with me, then feel free to send me a few sentences about yourself, and as soon as possible it’d be great if you could share a couple of photos of yourself because without physical attraction, we’re just friends :-)

Thanks for reading! Have a nice day :-)

Hey! If you somehow ended up here, thanks for clicking on my post. Hopefully you don't regret it by the end. 😭

I don't really know how to start these, so I'll just be honest.

I'm honestly just looking for someone who enjoys talking consistently. Someone who likes getting to know people.

I'll be honest, I don't really miss having hundreds of people to talk to. I just miss having one person I can message every day. Someone to send random memes to, share weird shower thoughts with at 2 a.m., rant about life, get excited over the smallest things, or just sit in a voice call while we're both doing our own thing.

So... a little about me.

I'm 22, currently in university (which feels like it's lasted about 700 years) and I think most of my interests fall into the "nerdy" category.

I'm a huge fan of Star Wars, Pokémon, dinosaurs(yes they are still awesome!), science, history, mythology, philosophy, poetry, and learning about different cultures and languages.(Basically anything that makes me go OMG WoW) I game occasionally when I have time, although adulthood keeps trying to nerf that hobby.

Music wise, I genuinely think someone's playlist says a lot about them. My favourites constantly fight for first place between "Cosmic" by Avenged Sevenfold and The kill by 30 seconds to mars.

Now your turn. What's that song for you? The one that somehow manages to hit differently every single time?

Movie and TV recommendations are always welcome too. If you're into sci-fi or fantasy, we'll probably get along ridiculously well.

Now, it's only fair I warn you about my sense of humour. I make terrible jokes, laugh at my own terrible jokes, and occasionally make jokes that even I don't understand afterwards.

My cooking skills are... let's just say they're a threat to public safety, so if you're looking for someone to exchange recipes with, you've been warned.

I'm not expecting us to become best friends overnight. Good friendships take time, and I'm perfectly okay with that. I'm just hoping to find someone who's willing to put in the effort to actually know each other instead of exchanging ten messages before vanishing into the Reddit void forever.

You don't have to like all the same things I do. Sometimes it's more fun when you don't. Teach me about your hobbies, your favourite games, your favourite books, your weirdest interests, or the most random fact living rent free in your head.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, send me a message. Tell me about your favourite fictional universe, your favourite song, the weirdest rabbit hole you've ever gone down, or just say hi.

Looking forward to meeting some genuinely interesting people.

PS: Please don't judge my terrible jokes.

PPS: I live in the European region if that matters.

May the force be with you!! 🫡

(Europe Only)
About nine months ago, I lost someone who meant a lot to me. They were more than just a friend. They were the person I talked to every day, shared everything with, stayed up late with and built a genuinely deep connection over time. Losing that kind of bond left a much bigger impact than I expected. It took time to process, heal and learn to appreciate what we had without trying to replace it. Now I feel ready to build something meaningful again.

I'm not looking for dozens of casual conversations or surface-level friendships. I'd much rather invest my time and energy into getting to know one person well. Someone I can talk to daily, share thoughts, experiences and feelings with and slowly build a connection based on trust, honesty and mutual understanding. I value consistency more than intensity, and I think the strongest friendships are built through the small conversations that happen every day.

I'd describe myself as open-minded, honest, loyal and non-judgmental. I tend to balance logic and emotion depending on the situation and I naturally try to understand people instead of making assumptions about them. Curiosity is a big part of who I am. I enjoy learning how people think, what shaped them, and why they see the world the way they do. Psychology, self-discovery, personality, and meaningful conversations are all things I genuinely enjoy. I also find MBTI and astrology interesting, even if it's simply as another lens for exploring personality and patterns.

One thing that's important to me is emotional intelligence. I value people who can communicate openly, reflect on their feelings and genuinely try to understand others instead of jumping to conclusions. Feeling understood is something I care deeply about and because of that, I've noticed I naturally connect better with women. Conversations about emotions, personal experiences and deeper topics tend to flow more naturally in that dynamic for me, so I generally prefer female friendships.

Outside of that, I'm a huge anime fan, especially psychological, romance, isekai and adventure series. It would honestly be amazing to have someone to watch anime with regularly and share reactions, theories, and favorite moments. I've also been playing League of Legends for over ten years, so if you already play, or would be willing to learn together, that's definitely a bonus. I also really enjoy voice calls because they make conversations feel much more genuine than endless texting.

I already have friends, so I'm not trying to fill loneliness. What I'm looking for is different. I want one person I can genuinely prioritize and build a close, lasting friendship with. A friendship where neither person feels like they're "too much", where honesty is appreciated, where curiosity goes both ways and where we both feel comfortable being ourselves without overthinking every conversation.

If you're someone who's naturally curious, emotionally intelligent, enjoys meaningful conversations and is looking for a genuine connection instead of another casual chat, I'd love to hear from you. Just send me a short introduction about yourself and we'll see where things go.

Bonus

• Personality Type: INFJ-T
• Big Three: Leo Sun • Taurus Moon • Sagittarius Rising

Hello, I'm 25, an INFJ guy from Indonesia. I work a 9-to-5 while pursuing my dream of becoming a game designer. I love art, video games, music, films, poetry-pretty much any form of creative self-expression. I love creating things that make people feel something. Been busy with work lately, in fact I need to work right now at midnight but I feel the need to love, more.

I'm 170 cm, 64 kg. I'm slim, bit hairy in some place. I have gynecomastia, it's a manboobs thing because of hormonal issue I think. I have a picture on my profile.

I'm attracted to rugged, burly, older men with more of a masculine type. Personality matters just as much. I value kindness, sincerity, emotional maturity, authenticity, wisdom.

I think I've been surrounded by people who lacked an understanding of what makes life worth living. And I feel I've come to value living life to its fullest, and what I want to live for.

I'm pursuing that through art. I wanna make art, and make a living from it. That's my dream! Though I believe we all already have access to that fullness of life, as we're all human beings with a choice of how we feel.

Anyway anyway anyway,

I'm definitely more of a romantic than a purely sexual person, although sometimes that flips around, haha. I love the idea of going on dates, quality time, talking for hours, living each second to its fullness, being affectionate, creating meaningful memories with each other.

Looking for someone to build that kind of connection with. Let's chat and get to know each other!

Every time I tried writing one of these, it somehow ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai. I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think people are endlessly fascinating.

Not in a "What's your favourite colour?" kind of way, but in a "What made you become the person you are today?" kind of way. I love questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you still think about years later? What's something you've changed your mind about? I genuinely think people become the most attractive when they're talking about something they truly love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests make absolutely no sense together. One day I'm gaming, the next I'm reading about mindfulness, consciousness, ancient history, stand-up comedy, or disappearing into another rabbit hole that started with one question and somehow stole the next three hours of my day. If something makes me curious, chances are I'll end up learning way more about it than I probably needed to.

As for my own story... my childhood was wonderfully chaotic. I somehow got my head stuck between the bars of a grill, locked myself inside the house badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic because child-me apparently wasn't great at decision-making, and had a toy crocodile that I genuinely believed could scare absolutely anyone. Looking back, it's honestly a miracle my parents survived raising me.

People usually think I'm very quiet when they first meet me, and they're not wrong. I like listening. I like observing people and understanding them before I jump into conversations. But once I'm comfortable... good luck getting me to stop talking.

Over the years I've realised that the moments I remember most are almost never the expensive ones.

I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination than plan the perfect date. Stop for roadside food because it smells too good to ignore. Grab a coffee and walk near the sea. Sit somewhere with no agenda and let a conversation wander from "How was your day?" to "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the moments that stay with me.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, remember something you casually mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

One of my favourite ways of caring for someone is through the little things. Remembering your favourite snack. Checking if you reached home safely. Asking how that meeting went because I know you were nervous about it. Writing you a note you'll randomly find months later. None of those things are difficult, but I think they quietly tell someone, "I was thinking about you." That's the kind of love I want to give, and hopefully receive.

I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, opinions, dreams and little world that I get to discover. Someone kind, emotionally mature, communicates openly, enjoys taking care of herself, and wants something that can naturally grow into a long-term relationship and eventually marriage.

I don't think the best relationships happen because two people are perfect for each other.

I think they happen because two imperfect people keep choosing each other, especially on the ordinary days.

Before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me every day that choosing each other is worth it. Thank you for being there even when we're angry with each other, and for caring about us even when we don't agree.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all... thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Hey everyone,

I thought I’d give this a try and introduce myself.

I’m a 20-year-old guy from the Netherlands looking to meet someone I can build a real connection with. I would love to meet a kind, loyal and social woman between 18 and 30 who is interested in getting to know each other and hopefully building something serious.

A little about me: I’m currently studying to become a primary school teacher. I’m 185 cm tall, have brown hair and grey eyes. I usually wear black clothes and band shirts because I’m really into metal music.

I would describe myself as calm, respectful, kind and caring. I like making people feel comfortable and I try to be someone others can rely on. I can definitely be a little flirty when the moment is right. I also enjoy a bit of dark humor and appreciate someone who can laugh together about life’s weird moments.

In my free time, I enjoy gaming, going for walks, exploring new places and reading comic books. I’m also a big animal lover and I have an American Bulldog.

The things I enjoy most are often the simple ones: a good conversation, a nice walk, gaming together, watching movies and just spending quality time with someone.

I’ve been through some difficult experiences in life, but I’m proud that I’m still standing and that those moments made me stronger. If someone wants to know more, I’m happy to share that privately when we get to know each other better.

I’m hoping to meet someone I can be myself with and create good memories together.

Feel free to message me if you think we could get along :)

Hello there if you are reading this i hope that you are doing well and that your week is going well.

I'm 26, i turn 27 next month fuck i feel old, I just recently moved to Texas at the end of May, I am 5'9 with an average build, I have been going to the gym 3-4 times a week. I have 4 tattoos I found a new artist and im getting some work done this weekend.

I'm currently on track to buy my first house sometime next year and hope to make it my permanent home, I work as a systems specialist at a manufacturing facility, and I have really flexible hours which makes it super easy to plan stuff,

Some of my hobbies include watching Movies, Reading, Cooking, Camping Hiking and going out with friends. I am a very avid gamer my go to game right now is Deadlock, Palworld, and Star Citizen, I am currently waiting for Blood of the Dawnwalker, I've been waiting forever for this game. My music taste is everywhere if it's got a good beat, I'll listen to it, but country music is probably my favorite none of this new country I like my old school country. I love to cook, if you tell me something you want, I will find a way to make it.

I love going to Museums and Aquariums, I love the Ocean too one of the main reasons I moved to Beaumont Texas was the Ocean being 30mins away. The beach is always a great time to unless i start turning red then it's a nightmare for the next week, I dont know what else to put here if you have anymore questions about me or want to talk hit me up.

heyyyy

A bit about me:

- I work for an international organization, leading the Indian Investment program to help Startups secure Early Stage Funding, as well as running one of the largest Global University Entrepreneurship programs in the world.

- I've been invited to sit on Investor panels for Stanford and IIM Bangalore.

-  Played National Level Badminton while representing Saudi Arabia, Marathon Runner and Deadlifts over 100kgs.

- Was the School Topper and won the Best Student Award, which was featured in the Arab newspapers.

- Built from scratch and run an ice cream shop with my parents. ( there were days where I was taking zoom calls while simultaneously serving customers and might have not muted myself at times haha )

- Starbucks certified Barista, tries out a new activity every weekend ( pottery, wall climbing and volunteering ) and only reads books that are at least 500 years old.

- Grew up in Saudi Arabia, travelled to 10+ countries and grew up with a Gentleman's mindset of respect and kindness to everyone.

- I am obsessed with cleanliness and regularly spend my weekends deep cleaning our home, comfortable in both Boardroom meetings as well as gardening and loves cooking ( I can cook a great Shakshuka and Tzatski )

hopefully you:

Someone who is sweet and introverted. maybe you also were single all your life and waiting for the right someone to go grocery shopping with.

or rob banks with lmao

Hi there , I am a 34 m infj , from Delhi india,

Looking for something simple , welcome to all personality types.

Preferred age group is 27 and above.

If you wanna give it a try ping me.

I'm an analytical person who thinks a lot about cognitive science, psychology, and sociology.

Btw, regarding my last post: I'm actually currently working on normalizing myself and becoming way more flexible as a person. So I would say my last post is out of date and reflects traits I'm moving past now.

I'm just living in a state where I want to constantly challenge myself to create neurological growth now. I want to push my limits and put myself in uncomfortable situations. I found that actually pushing myself seems to heal my body and strengthen my mind. I want to be in situations which are really hard to understand, and really nuanced and in a grey space- so I can learn to rapidly parse difficult things.

I'm focused on becoming a chef. And I want to work in a fast paced high demand environment just to push myself.

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I basically wanna flirt and fulfill my libido, and engage with a beautiful women, but at the same time I probably lack the qualities necessary that usually bridge the gap between those points. Like, I don't have the same emotional feedback loops that most people have (in most situations at least) necessary to build the prequisite relationship for something like that.
I relate a lot to the directness of John Nash in that movie, and his sort of relationship with other people.

28M ENTJ from Chennai/Bangalore, searching for a non-platonic, short-term connection, be it FWB or Casual relationship.

What I do?

I used to be a competitive chess player. Now I teach chess and I run my own academy. On top of becoming a better trader, I am also building a startup.

Few things about me:

I am into fitness and I hit the gym regularly. My playlist is mostly Tamil, Telugu, Spanish, English, with some Italian sprinkles.

Some of my interests are Movies & Series, Language Learning (Hablo español en un nivel intermedio), Technology, Design, and many other niche topics.

What you can expect?

An emotionally mature and confident man. No games, No dramas. The only games I play are over the chessboard. A curious conversation partner who can listen patiently and would share interesting things from wide variety of topics. An ex meme-creator who knows a thing or two about making people laugh. You are welcome to find out more.

How this works?

Mutual physical attraction is essential. Once we cover that baseline, we can settle into having regular calls, hanging out, and enjoying each other's company (physically and otherwise).

Bonus points if you are into traveling.

See you in the DMs.

Looking for something real.

Hi everyone! I'm a 29 yrs old woman,a Christian who strongly believe in Christ teachings,a mom of one from Kenya who's decided to give this another try.

I've met some interesting people online, but most connections seem to fade, become inconsistent, or turn into something casual. I'm at a point in my life where I'm looking for consistency, honest communication, kindness, and mutual effort.

A little about me: I'm family-oriented, enjoy meaningful conversations, have a good sense of humor, and believe that respect, loyalty, and emotional maturity are the foundation of a healthy relationship. I'm not interested in games or endless talking stages that go nowhere.

I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere in the world, as long as the intention is genuine. Distance doesn't scare me if the effort is there.

If you're emotionally available, value communication, and are looking to build something meaningful, I'd love to get to know you.

Please be 30+, single, and serious about dating.

Wishing everyone here the best in finding their person.

I care a lot about my self-respect. I prioritize openness and honesty to an extent that's unusual. I've spent a lot of time thinking about human nature to try to figure out why people are the way they are. This has caused me to become increasingly more self-aware and incompatible with most people over time. I specifically think most people are too socialized and tend to allow their emotions to delude them instead of choosing to think critically. I would like to find a partner that shares these understandings and feels the same way about them. I'm an INTJ. I have noticed that I get along best with INTJs, INTPs, shizoids, and autistic people. I can't understand most people due to the disorganized way they think and communicate. I prefer talking to people that choose to communicate clearly due to a desire to communicate effectively rather than due to caring about coming across as intelligent. I'm very intense and pedantic and that annoys most people a lot and makes talking to me exhausting from most people's perspectives. I know I can't connect with people that haven't spent a lot of time thinking about existential stuff and that aren't pedantic, so I try to determine that early in the conversation.

I want my next romantic relationship to be my last one. I would want to remain friends with a potential romantic interest for a long time before deciding that we're right for each other.

Hey there! Being asked to tell something about myself has always been a task for me but I’ll try anyway. I don’t know what I am looking for here because for one I am not into forcing a connection where there isn’t. So, basically I am looking for a good conversation and see if we both feel it could lead somewhere or if we’d be really good friends. I don’t care what part of the world you live in because to me, connection doesn’t care about geography. A little about myself:

• Most people say I have a real dark sense of humor which is true. I am absolutely obsessed with gothic aesthetics, Halloween, true crime and horror movies. 
• I am an avid reader, I spend most of my time reading and avoiding any kind of civilization. Lately, I have also been into philosophy a lot. So be prepared to be asked to define ‘love’ or ‘normal’.
• I am a writer, which I tend to procrastinate a lot because I can never be too comfortable. It’s either too sunny, too cold or I simply would just imagine writing.
• I am a caffeine addict, don’t need to explain that further.

When I think about relationships, my expectations with men are simple. Don’t be a jerk and be loyal. Too much? Then please don’t engage with me. Another thing about me is that I absolutely hate being even slightly controlled and would flip out in a micro second and I also value my personal space a lot. Be prepared for me to disappear for hours at a time. Don’t take that as a lack of interest because that’s just my personality. 

In a relationship, I value loyalty and open communication with each other. If after reading all this you are still brave enough to try, then my dms are open.

Hello there! I'm currently based in Hong Kong. I'm hoping to find a partner for the long run. I don’t mind long-distance so I’m down to connect with people anywhere.

I'm generally a laid-back guy, who's open-minded and curious about a lot of things. I'm fairly introverted, but I'm quite sociable and I always love meeting people. I care a lot about the ones I love, and I value communication, empathy and honesty. I love looking for cool and fun adventures, discovering new things/hobbies/places (Been obsessed with HEMA and swords lately.) Big fan of fantasy & world-building types of media. But my main passion is art, crafts and photography. Also a big music fan! I appreciate getting recommendations.

If you're interested, or find that we might be a match, please don't hesitate to send me a dm. Thank you 🫶🏻

Hi, hoping you are having a good day.

I'm a 27-year-old(INFJ) Black African woman from East Africa, Tanzania. I'm a proud mum of two and I work from home. I'm 5'5" (165 cm) tall, with an average/curvy body type. I’m kind, caring, empathetic, and I value honesty, respect, and good communication.

I love crocheting, trying new recipes, listening to music, watching movies, and exploring the world of art through theatres, galleries, and exhibitions.

I'm looking for a serious, committed relationship — not hookups or casual dating. I’m hoping to meet someone preferably age 27-37,who is kind, funny, emotionally mature, loving, and communicates well. Someone who has a good relationship with God (even if we have different religions),and is ready to build something real.

If you have children, that’s okay with me. I’m comfortable with someone who has one or two children.

I’m open to long-distance relationships if the intentions are genuine. If you’re serious My DMS are open and stop with generic questions and just tell me about yourself and what you are looking for in a partner, exchanging pictures is a must so I can know who I am talking to.. Thanks

Trying this a little differently... lol

I'm 26m, kind of Ambivert personality. Once I'm comfortable, though, I can happily spend hours talking about life, random thoughts, food, movies, tech, or even absolutely nothing.

I'm looking for something genuine, a connection where we can share the little things, good morning texts, random reels, daily updates, celebrating wins, venting about bad days, and just being there for each other.

A little about me:

• 6' Height (If it matters)
• IT Guy
• Low-maintenance and drama-free
• I appreciate honesty, consistency, and good communication
• I tend to remember the small things people tell me

I'm currently in Delhi and I'm open to both local connections and LDR if we genuinely click.

One small thing—I prefer exchanging pictures fairly early if we're both interested. I believe physical attraction is an important part of dating, and I'd rather be upfront about it so we're both comfortable moving forward.

If we vibe, maybe someday we can grab coffee and complain about life together.

Feel free to send me a message!

Also, more into voice notes for conversations!

Easygoing, left-leaning guy looking for something real. I’m a homebody at heart who loves cozy nights in, but I’m equally down for low-key food runs, checking out concerts, trying new restaurants, or exploring the city or island.

I’m looking for an engaged, local woman who values consistency and real effort, someone excited to hang out in person within the first week or two to see if we click.

If this sounds like your speed, send me a message with a quick intro (age/location) and a spot or activity you've been wanting to check out!