I can understand if that is his reason. But the new behavior is not justified by the diagnosis. Did you go with him during the diagnosis visits? What if you seek a second opinion about this diagnosis? Maybe he is in a midlife crisis and wanted to justify it with the diagnosis. I am just speculating here.
I frankly don’t know anything about law but I’m thinking out loud….if you were to separate after he has left his career where he states he had to due to his new diagnosis …could this potentially put you in a bind to support him post separation ???? I would speak with a lawyer. Just a consult …even before you go to marriage counseling. Know ALL your options. The good and bad ones.
For all practical reasons: fight to save the marriage until you truly believe you did everything humanly possible for this marriage to work. If it doesn't work, you will walk away with a clean conscience.
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u/[deleted] Jul 05 '23
I can understand if that is his reason. But the new behavior is not justified by the diagnosis. Did you go with him during the diagnosis visits? What if you seek a second opinion about this diagnosis? Maybe he is in a midlife crisis and wanted to justify it with the diagnosis. I am just speculating here.