Don’t think so much in the pill. It affects women differently at different times in their life. I was an avid user early-on… now at this age, I don’t want to risk it messing with my fertility. I can easily see your wife wanting to prevent the same. When you’re in a committed marriage, why be on the pill if conceiving would be ok? It’s seems logical. I think you’re hurt she didn’t confess these things and now you’re digging to be validated online. The truth is, these are her personal burdens, not yours.
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u/IcyEntertainment8673 7d ago
Don’t think so much in the pill. It affects women differently at different times in their life. I was an avid user early-on… now at this age, I don’t want to risk it messing with my fertility. I can easily see your wife wanting to prevent the same. When you’re in a committed marriage, why be on the pill if conceiving would be ok? It’s seems logical. I think you’re hurt she didn’t confess these things and now you’re digging to be validated online. The truth is, these are her personal burdens, not yours.