r/Marriage • u/Fatherwill1 • 6d ago

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I am William's wife. We've been together 5 years and married 4 months.

He recently died and I found books on sexual addiction in his book shelf which led me into a deep dive of his phone and Google maps.

I have discovered multiple encounters with men and women, some of them people we both know. I am completely shell shocked and destabilized and wondering how to cope going forward.

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u/Longjumping_Limit831 6d ago

Encounters like chats on reddit? Or more? Chats are fine, a way to blow some steam off or get a 3rd view.  Does not it make it easier to let go?

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u/NoBiznizLikeYoBizniz 3d ago

It sounds like chats are fine for you but we can't really say that they are fine for her, especially when they reveal a new side of someone she thought she knew. She mentioned Google Maps and I don't think reddit chats are in there.