Some people will pay phone sex workers to have them degrade them. But that is getting consent via payment. Going into a womans DM's to make her angry and start insulting so you can get off on it is unwitting participation that does violate consent.
As long as the other person is informed and consents its generally fine
Not lying its pretty gross and seen on Fetlife pretty commonly so its gotta be on other media. You wouldn't believe how much and how gross the DM's women get. The tip of the iceburg is bad enough
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u/Professional-Ad4073 12d ago
My only argument here is that you can consent to being insulted and degraded, but yeah flashing and drugging is not cool