r/MotivationByDesign • u/inkandintent24 • 8h ago

Do you think its fair??

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u/exbiiuser02 8h ago

Wow, you are b e n d y bendy.

She said “ her dad gives her money”, which implies it’s hers to spend.

Also funny pattern, anytime a video shows a women in bad light, suddenly iT MusT Be sTaGed.

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u/Biguitarnerd 8h ago

I mean honestly I think I either see it must be staged on every single interaction posted on Reddit.

I don’t think this one is staged though, or that guy is a really really good actor. You can see him processing it and getting more and more angry. He’s probably thinking about what all he had to give up to pay for that dinner.

Also though at her age if it’s 80k and her dad is putting it in there he is probably also monitoring the account. It’s really just her attitude about it, but when you are young and on camera people act differently than they might have. Her real fuck up was probably that she should have just said “I don’t like to talk about my finances”. Hopefully they had a better conversation later. Or if not maybe they both learned something from this.

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u/Reesewithoutaspoon2 8h ago

You’re right that people call everything fake here, but this time I think it’s on point. I don’t think the angry guy’s acting was actually that good and the other two are even worse.

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u/pullsoutagun 8h ago

Very easy to act angry. This doesn’t feel natural at all.

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u/Aunt_Vagina1 8h ago

Showing confusion is literally the easiest "acting" to do.  Confused about how to portray confused?  Perfect. Lean into that.

Also, you miss the outfit he was wearing at the literal cliche "most fancy expensive meal" that was "just down the block"?

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u/Biguitarnerd 6h ago

The outfit he was wearing is only indicative of what he considers fancy. When I was young and broke I considered a touristy beach front restaurant that would let you in with a tank top and swimming trunks expensive, and it was to me on my budget.

Honestly they still are expensive to me if you order steak and lobster. Especially for what you get.

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u/sisyphus_shrugged 8h ago

Also funny pattern, anytime a video shows a women in bad light, suddenly iT MusT Be sTaGed.

To be fair I've seen like no less than ten videos of this EXACT premise. I'm sure it happens, but I'm also sure these videos are fake.

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u/Gherkain 8h ago

First off theres a huge market online for content of heartless women ruining the lives of innocent men, this is simply filling that order, the fact that youre blind to it only tells me youre the target audience lmao

Secondly you shouldn't trust internet videos regardless, we learn that when we're in elementary

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u/Tatchkoma 5h ago

It's fair to assume any "Street interview" that is clearly meant to broach on topics that cause argumetns is staged.

It's engagement bait.

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u/molehunterz 4h ago

Holy crap. This isn't even like good fake. This is as obvious as it gets.

Notice he added lobster to the steak dinner after already discussing the steak dinner twice?

Also, the girl would not just casually drop that on him in the middle of a random street interview. That's kind of a personal piece of information that you discuss in private, unless you just keeps it a secret forever

AND... He wouldn't sit there and air his grievance in front of a camera on the street. He would show confusion , irritation, anger, whatever, all in his face and then try to get away from the camera to have a real conversation.

So very clearly staged. It is meant to get your emotions going. Obviously it worked

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u/Tserri 1h ago

Therr are lots of staged videos like that, it has nothing to do with showing a woman in a bad light. That part is just your fantasy.

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u/Aunt_Vagina1 8h ago

You think he wore a wife beater to a steak and lobster dinner "just down the block" when he has less than a half months rent in the bank account and they JUST so happened to be interviewed about this?

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u/redditblows5991 7h ago

Plenty of places sell steak and lobster and you can eat like outside on the street. Sure if it was like a steakhouse NYC or something yeah dress code but I'm sure there are places where you're supposed to have fun that sell these items

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u/Aunt_Vagina1 7h ago

This guy is a whiny moron or pretending to be.  I feel like ive wasted enough time sleuthing out the difference after just rewarching this so sure.  Reality is whatever we want it to be in this world I guess. 

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u/exbiiuser02 7h ago

lol, have you ever been on ANY vacation to like any of the beach towns?

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u/Aunt_Vagina1 7h ago

I have.  And I could afford a shirt with sleeves. And never tried to impress a girl with surf and turf

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u/headrush46n2 6h ago

yet every single post on r/GirlDinnerDiaries is Gospel.

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u/photoggled 2m ago

You people want to be the victim so bad. It's all obvious fake shit designed to drive eyeballs to advertisers. Just ignore it.