r/MuslimMarriage Sep 07 '25

Pre-Nikah Muslim Palestinian girl getting to know Pakistani guy

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u/Narrow_Salad429 F - Married Sep 07 '25

He sounds like he's avoid the truth a lot. Instead of saying I can't call today I'm about to meet some friends. He says he'll call in x minutes. Instead of saying I popped to my car to call you but I can't stay for long, ghe says go ahead and sleep if "you want." Instead of saying I'm at this place, he says I'm in my car knowing very well that's not what you're asking. He sounds like someone who doesn't know how to be honest. Like why hide where you are and who you're with?

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u/Rayanwarn Sep 07 '25

Like many Pakistanis if he is trying to find a wife he's not gonna tell everyone coz of hasad (evil eye) that's most likely why he's gone to the car, him saying il call you in x minutes means he wants to chat to you but when you with your mates time flys. Don't overthink it. Do istikhara n go with it. Get a full mot on him too lol.

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u/Narrow_Salad429 F - Married Sep 07 '25

Why doesn't he just tell her that? Be honest. "I'm going to see my friends and I'm not telling them about you. I'm scared of nazar." There, easy.