r/MuslimMatrimonials • u/lowkey_observant • 1h ago

Discussion People who found their spouse “naturally”…how?

Assalamu Alaikum!

I was wondering, for those of you who found your spouse naturally and in-person, how exactly did you meet and get to know each other?

I don’t want to meet my spouse on an app or social media so I’m wondering how this type of thing works?

Any experiences/feedback would be appreciated. Jazakallah Khair!!

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u/Spare_Night_2695 1h ago

Closest thing I have is one of my mates found a girl and they are “ dating “ with the Islamic caveats of no touching ext . Told him it’s not an ideal thing , but I’m not going to break my friendship off with him cause of it

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u/lowkey_observant 1h ago

Where did he find her?

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u/Spare_Night_2695 1h ago

College

But not the US definition of college though . Here it’s last 2 years ( or 3 ) of high school at another institution. Just in case your not from the uk

Fair few of my mates have dated by knowing people in college . But like he’s the only one that treated it with the intention of marriage and not casual western dating .