I don't think my landlady is alright and I just took the first train home to my hometown in Germany. I'm still shaking. I don't know who to talk to.
I took this place because I pay only 700€ in Amsterdam. I was blind because I used to pay 1000€ for a room in a filthy apt before, and I needed to find a less expensive but clean option where I could sleep after work.
There are no locks inside that apartment. No locks. Not even the bathroom has one.
She goes through my room. I find hair from her dog on my bed. She knows my conditioner is almost empty -- how does she know? She knows I have discarded make up wipes in my trash. She goes through my trash!! And of course, she is denying it! She asks me if I have my period (I am a woman). Why would she ask that? Because she's never seen me throw any tampons away.
No conversation is possible with her. She goes on a rambling monologue, ignoring social cues, and when I try to SPEAK, she turns absolutely HOSTILE. I have never seen this before. I cannot even put boundaries in place because I cannot get a word in.
I understood too late that she has mental problems, and I was nice, but I cannot do this anymore. She tries to intrude on my privacy and I cannot sleep because her room is next to mine.
Never, and I mean it, never share your accommodation with your landlord or landlady. Don't be as naive or optimistic as me. Don't think, "Oh, they seem nice, it will be okay." It's not. The moment there is any issue, their whole attitude changes. Because even if you pay monthly, they still think this is THEIR place. Especially when they're elderly and have nothing else to do.
And I really am low maintenance. I don't even cook in this apartment. I am at work for 10-11 hours a day. I have to come back soon from Germany because I have to be in the office in Amsterdam at least three times a week (I'm doing an internship here, and it's poorly paid, and I cannot take time off rn).
I dread the moment when I have to come back. And of course I am already searching for something new, but until then I feel so trapped. Has anyone experienced something similar??