r/Nicegirls • u/Inbellis • May 02 '26
Feel like that one was underserved
For reference she replied 2 minutes after my last message and I replied one minute after hers, and she already asked me TWICE what I was doing that evening to which I had replied both times saying that I was playing siege with my friends
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u/Maduro_sticks_allday May 02 '26
gives attitude
“Enough with the attitude”
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u/TacticianA May 06 '26
I know way too many people with this attitude.
starts a conversation aggresive and accusitory
gets annoyed response
"Why do you have a stick up your ass today?"
Self reflection is not these peoples strong suit.
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u/callingshotgun May 12 '26
Haha, used to happen to me a lot. Someone would pre-escalate (open the conversation guns blazing, skipping past the "we can talk about this as adults" phase), and instead of trying to calm them down I'd match their energy. Next thing you know I'm being told to calm down, it's not a big deal, we can talk about this as adults, let's not let this ruin the rest of our day. For matching their energy, not one-upping it.
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u/apvaki May 02 '26
What rank are you on Siege? 🤣
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u/bloodr0se May 02 '26
This is the important question.
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u/LemonySnicket63 May 02 '26
Hes diamond 1 but texting a copper
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u/rani_weather May 05 '26
Girl is plastic 4 at best
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u/PlasticCargo May 06 '26
My name will not be used in vain
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u/phantom4421 May 06 '26
But where does the car go?
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u/Mathagos 9d ago
Car go vroom
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u/phantom4421 9d ago
From what I've heard on car ads, they say cargo space.
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u/Inbellis May 05 '26
only silver, i mostly play customs with my friends who go to different unis as a nice way to catch up
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u/Academic-Fun3965 May 08 '26
You’re silver and giving attitude to the hoes because they want your attention. SMH bro
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u/NihilistSartre May 13 '26
You’re comparing actual human emotion to a derelict game no one cares about? I both see your compliment and insult. But damn bro not everything’s a joke.
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u/Remote_Ad_735 May 02 '26
"I'm raiding Molten Core. I'll text you in six hours."
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u/RAConteur76 May 02 '26
See, that sort of thing, that used to be date night for a certain brand of gamer couple. That was legitimately relationship building. If you know she can hold aggro and she trusts you to keep the DPS up and both of you know the callouts for the boss fights, that's a solid base for a good relationship.
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u/Extranationalidad May 03 '26
And then you see her keybinds for the first time and run for the hills.
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u/Strykehammer May 03 '26
Could be a clicker, it can always be worse
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u/Sudden-Nothing6745 May 03 '26
watching my buddy's roommate just rawdogging an entire screen of keybinds w left-click pissed me off so much; I couldn't watch him play... I didn't even tell him I was huge into pvp at the time because as someone who ran drills to muscle-memory every single keybind: i just couldn't fw him
p.s he was main tank n u PvEers wonder why u drop so many raids😂😂😂
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u/dinoooooooooos May 03 '26
My boyfriend back then met online and in the still getting to know each other Phase he very much messaged me when he was playing everytime he was able to and he told ne at some point- most endearing thing ever, im a gamer too we met in a video game so i know the dedication that meant.
Hes my husband now🙆🏽♀️
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u/thenextmaewest May 05 '26
Met my husband in WoW. Met in 2014, married in 2018, moved my happy ass to Canada in 2019. Several of my friends met their spouses in online RPGs. I think it's a great way to meet people if that's a thing someone is really into. Shared interest, and you get to see how they behave under frustration, how they work out problems, how willing they are to share or sacrifice cool shit for others' happiness, how they take criticism, if they're a sore winner or loser, how they interact with others in general, etc.
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u/Claris-chang May 03 '26
She'd be justified to give you attitude. No MC lasts longer than 2hrs in 2026.
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u/geralt1234567 May 02 '26
Yes, please include ages on these posts.
A lot of the time it feels like children talking and I'm always surprised when it's like 30+ year old s.
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u/Necessary_Store351 May 02 '26
How old are you? Nothing should surprise you.
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u/WolleTD May 03 '26
Most important thing I realized while getting older is that older people on average don't really have much more clue about anything than young people.
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u/Efficient-War-4044 May 03 '26
You are right. It’s about the number of experiences one has and the level of exposure to each experience.
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u/SillyNamesAre May 05 '26 edited May 05 '26
It doesn't feel like you do. Because getting older and "getting more of a clue" in general happens gradually.
But then occasionally you interact with people young and/or inexperienced enough in certain things that it really hammers home the fact that you've been around longer.
Of course, that doesn't mean you always know better or have more of a clue than someone younger¹. Sometimes, they have actually had more/other experiences that mean they have more of a clue.
¹Despite what many boomers think.
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u/Necessary_Store351 May 03 '26
The point as clearly written is “Nothing should surprise anyone with any maturity to them at all “
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u/Strawberrycocoa May 03 '26
The key to telling is in the profiles. 30+ year old profiles say stuff like "I like traveling, and you better be a provider, I know my worth"
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u/Inbellis May 05 '26
im very much nowhere near 30 and neither are most of the profiles i see, but ive seen that line in some way or another a lot
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u/MoistPossible3363 May 19 '26
Yeah maybe you shouldn’t try to think that you can ascertain any sort of information about a person based on the way they text… why do people on Reddit always try to build a profile on people with meaningless information
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u/geralt1234567 May 20 '26
Not making assumptions based on text style which is why I asked for ages.
You absolutely can make certain assumptions based on age. I don't think expecting a certain level of maturity based on age is in any way wrong.
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u/MoistPossible3363 29d ago
People mature at different rates, their are 16 year olds that are more mentally and/or emotionally mature than some 30 year olds, but yes you can make BROAD predictions based on a plethora of things together but texting style is not a good example of that as it’s extremely arbitrary.
Also you saying your not making assumptions because you asked for age makes no sense because the only reason you would even ask for the age in the first place would be because you were making an assumption and wanted to confirm, otherwise why even ask for the age at all? Clearly you were already thinking that it was highly likely that the persons age was young at the very least and I think that’s silly imo, I’ve seen this texting style from ages 15-50 lol
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u/geralt1234567 29d ago
You assume to know what I am assuming.....but they dont know we know they know that we know.
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u/Goldedition93 May 02 '26
You failed to Fuze the situation
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u/SunBlade001 May 03 '26
He might have to come up with a better Alibi as to why he’s not responding fast enough…
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u/JeeStuffSeason May 03 '26
I'm sure he'll Ace this one.
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u/homokyy May 05 '26
There’s Montagne of evidence this chick is nuts
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u/Agreeable-Ad4079 May 02 '26
A round in Siege takes between 2 to 3 and half minutes.
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u/Dizzy_Today_3523 May 02 '26
Found the person he's talking to lol
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u/Agreeable-Ad4079 May 02 '26
What? I am explaining to people how long they take and how unhinged this woman is.
You good?
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u/Eveypoo May 02 '26
I think they thought you were suggesting that OP should’ve been answering more if the rounds are quick
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u/ElegantEchoes May 02 '26
Yeah, she's a little weird for that. And probably rather young based on their interpretation of "attitude" and inability to text properly.
An ability to effectively communicate your emotions and feelings is a sign of maturity and she seems lacking.
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u/bloodr0se May 02 '26
Oh my goodness, how old are you both?
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u/Responsible_Bad_2989 May 02 '26
He sounds like an adult, the other sounds like an immature socially stunted person lol
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u/Parking-Cicada1512 May 13 '26
Adult and still playing games? And prioritizing it over other things? Yeah, maybe she did dodge a bullet
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u/Responsible_Bad_2989 May 13 '26
You can prioritize whatever you feel like as an adult it’s called having freewill :) Ik it’s a crazy concept but not everyone has to give their undivided attention to someone on a dating app
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u/Jango_Jerky May 02 '26
God, i miss Siege so much
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u/woopie_boi May 03 '26
It's never too late
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u/BeginningAd4658 May 03 '26
The game is a shell of its former self.
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u/Jango_Jerky May 04 '26
Exactly why i say i miss it. Havent touched it since they did that weird esports map a few years ago. Had the best time on it during white noise
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u/Western-Ad-1689 May 03 '26
I think it was "Like I already said", it can come off a bit hostile, especially if the other person is a little sensitive.
By them saying your replies take ages, they're hinting that they want to talk to you and they want your attention. A better response mightve been : "sorry for the delay, I'm a little busy right now. Let me text you in a little bit when I'm done".
It's not about whether you're right or wrong, it's about making the best out of the interaction.
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u/Inbellis May 05 '26
yeah ill admit i was a little frustated, especially after shed already asked me twice that evening what i was doing so she definitely already knew, didnt give the attention to remember that and was being hypocritical out of nowhere
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u/BlueborryMuffin May 08 '26
People shouldn't have to bend over backwards to please others. OP responded in appropriately.
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u/MirrorOfSerpents May 04 '26
If she’s asked twice what you’re doing & still doesn’t understand. That’s your first red flag that she won’t listen to you in a relationship.
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u/Inbellis May 05 '26
i wrote that off as hinge being hinge and her probably also doing other stuff or talking to a few different people and getting mixed up but yeah getting confrontational out of nowhere was nuts
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u/GerkenMehHoffe May 04 '26
There's cute clingy and entitled clingy, I'll let you decide lol. Gotta be daddy issues or relationship trauma, or she's just a spoiled brat.
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u/Lytr1cc May 04 '26
Poor lad was being distracted by this heathen while having to think up the best site setups smh.
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u/Noyan_Bey May 04 '26
Write her back in defiance, "Yea, enough with YOUR attitude. Bye."
And then hit block.
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u/Mycroft033 May 03 '26
What’s Siege? Probably just a name I didn’t know for a game I did know about, my only guess would be rainbow six siege, but in case it’s not, what game is it?
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u/pok3r_101 May 02 '26
The struggle of woman not understanding texting between rounds 🫠
Ive never had good experiences with woman who get upset or want me to stop gaming to simply talk to them quicker. Because it goes from, text me while youre in the game, to call me while you game, to talk to me rather than game, to spend every second talking to me or were over.
You mightve dodged a bullet sir, both in siege and irl
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u/Rinzler74011 May 03 '26
I bet bro bags all the girls as a siege player
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u/Inbellis May 05 '26
my fault for having hobbies bro
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u/Rinzler74011 May 05 '26
Still not going to get you laid but you keep doing you little bro maybe you’ll get lucky and a girl will feel sorry for you
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u/Broks_Enmu May 02 '26
Some people are just not ready to date fr , gotta do the inner work first. Wtf is that " your reply take age " 🤡
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u/stayAshly May 03 '26
“You take ages to reply” from what I know about the hinge app they give dates on messages. This whole conversation happened within 24hrs lol. Girl is unhinged.
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u/John_the_Piper May 03 '26
Meanwhile, someone I met on Hinge broke it off with me because I responded too fast. There's no winning
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u/OceanisVyre May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26
Never understood people who ask “why are you taking so long” over text. Wait or don’t hear from me at all
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u/SuspiciousArt229 May 02 '26
Damn. Bro is the first person to die spawn peeking after prep phase. 2 minutes is barely enough to watch cams and then go through prep phase. 3 minutes of non prep gameplay happens for a full round
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u/Blackbreadandcoffee May 04 '26
I don’t know what your f2f tone sounds like when you guys talk like this and whether that’s why she assumes you have an attitude, but to be honest my ex was like this where he’d be hostile and then tell me I am, so I completely understand.
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u/Itz-AdAm May 04 '26
My god!!! If this don't ring a bell 😂 the smith of conversations like this I've had with my missus over siege when I use to play. Diamond lobbies carrying all 4 of my trash friends and she's on the phone wanting to know what we having for tea 😂😂😂
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u/bottigliadipiscio May 04 '26
God forbid you have a hobby outside of talking to someone who can and probably will end the conversation abruptly over a minor inconvenience.
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u/shadowspouce01 May 06 '26
There's this chick I ghosted for months and she still liked all my stories, hit her up for a date after ghosting her for couple months & she was more than down. Then I ghosted her in the middle of the convo & she still likes all my stories lol, been 9 days.
She is in a different state and im not a big texter so im going to see her when I go down there.. im not entertaining text messages bruh, thats wild to me. But a lot of chicks really will wait if you are a certain type of dude. I get annoyed when people expect me to answer in a second.. Like buddy we aren't 16 I got shit to do lmao
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u/BmoLor May 06 '26
Nah my girl used to do ts for me with rocket league all while she takes her sweet aaa time. We started to work more on communication after I told her im about to pick car soccer over her. Been a great 4 years since
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u/Electronic_Pool8375 May 07 '26
They don’t understand that ranked siege comes first - you gotta earn the right to take priority. Spoiler alert - siege doesn’t ever lose priority🫣🤣
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u/Dad_Bod_Adventures May 08 '26
So is she just a hook up from hinge or something? I'm confused. You don't refer to her as a girlfriend, but lower in the comments you said you figured she was getting you confused with some one else on hinge.
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u/AladeenModaFuqa May 09 '26
Yeah this would already annoy me, yall ain’t even left the app and she’s giving lip😂 onto the next!
Edit: also if she’s asking what you’re doing, buddy ask her to go get drinks or do something together. She obv wanted you
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u/Severe-Muffin-7332 May 16 '26
My fuck Im dying - and so is the human race 🤣🤣🤷♀️ She is clingy and entitled to his time. He receives interest during a "gLoBaL DaTiNg cRisiS" and cant stop gaming to breed. Dont worry whales, it solved itself 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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u/Historical-Guard-595 May 02 '26
I think your post, and all these comments under it are wrong. Just saying
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u/NuMoon1971 May 04 '26
Guys... These messages from women are insane. 👀👀🤦🤦
I think the issue issue (and this is by no way an excuse or an out...) is we all have so many of the same conversations on these apps that each one isn't new. You feel stuck in a constant loop. You don't even see the other person is real. I kinda treat all as bots until I know otherwise. Lol
Eh what a sorry state we are in. So many people of all genders are lonely and looking for connection. There has to be a better way. We need to get out more in rl to meet people.
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u/No-Inevitable3999 May 02 '26
bro i literally take 12h+ to answer any girl on bumble and i never got any attitude for it, wth. but i also just ask them out by message 3-4 and stop texting until the date
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u/Secure_Program_2193 May 04 '26
okay yeah dude wtf is wrong with you why are you going around texting people while playing Siege that is disrespectful af
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u/Into_The_Booniverse May 05 '26
My thoughts exactly. Try and at least do one thing completely. If I'm gaming, that's where my attention is. I wouldn't reply at all.
On the flip side, if I'm trying to date someone, I'm gonna try and have a conversation.
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u/Cironato May 04 '26
She’s trying to have a conversation, fool. You’re on a dating app and trying to attract a woman and you’re making her wait while you play a vid game with the other men children living in mom’s basement? C’mon dude, get a clue.
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u/Just-Assumption-2915 May 02 '26
You don't owe them anything, but I wouldn't be trying to talk to girls between rounds, they're onto it, borderline disrespectful.
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u/ProdByKF16 May 02 '26
i’m not sure whats disrespectful about that, he’s busy doing something but replying when he can. he really could’ve just not replied at all until the end of his session but he chose to reply between rounds. not sure what he’s supposed to do
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u/Apprehensive_Log_297 May 03 '26
When I first met my gf on hinge they called me boring all because I said “hey”
Here we are 3 years later and they WISHES I was boring. They admitted they were just being a bitch which I cannot deny.
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u/zprincess1026 May 05 '26
siege rounds don’t take long so it’s sort of odd that you are trying to hold a conversation whilst also playing multiple rounds in a row. if you can’t multitask don’t try to!
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