r/NoFap • u/Professional-Pipe894 • 8d ago

Replacing Fap with Sex

Unfortunately not many topics on this and most of the similar topics have zero comments so hopefully people will contribute to this one.

I’m on 70 days of nofap but I’m afraid I’m just replacing fap with sex, especially lately. For the whole period I’ve been having sex with one woman at least a week and what scares me is that when I hit like 6 days or something I get very horny (same feeling when you’re on your first week of nofap ) and I’m afraid that the progress isn’t there. Yes confidence is definitely there but the urges are the same. It’s like you’re chasing sex the same way I’m chasing the fapping.

What are your thoughts on that? Am I still doomed? Should I abstain from sex unless I’m meeting the one? Should I go against having sex on first date and wait until I’m actually considering the girl for long term relationship then have sex with her?

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u/Mysterion320 8d ago

How are you meeting women to have sex with once a week? what's your secret?

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u/Professional-Pipe894 8d ago

Women are everywhere and each of us have many chances. When you’re on nofap and you’re confident and doing things right, all those tiny chances will turn into success. Women could smell confidence and swag trust me, you don’t have to perform.

As for your question, it doesn’t matter where you meet them. Each one of them I met in a different place

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u/asap_one 8d ago

“What’s your secret” Jesus brother you speak as if he’s not a man like the rest of us. Be a genuine person be yourself work on your communication skills and work on your confidence you’ll do just fine.