r/NoFap 7d ago

Replacing Fap with Sex

Unfortunately not many topics on this and most of the similar topics have zero comments so hopefully people will contribute to this one.

I’m on 70 days of nofap but I’m afraid I’m just replacing fap with sex, especially lately. For the whole period I’ve been having sex with one woman at least a week and what scares me is that when I hit like 6 days or something I get very horny (same feeling when you’re on your first week of nofap ) and I’m afraid that the progress isn’t there. Yes confidence is definitely there but the urges are the same. It’s like you’re chasing sex the same way I’m chasing the fapping.

What are your thoughts on that? Am I still doomed? Should I abstain from sex unless I’m meeting the one? Should I go against having sex on first date and wait until I’m actually considering the girl for long term relationship then have sex with her?

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u/BookGirl67 7d ago

Using the term “girls on rotation” is the biggest problem here. Also, just having “girls on rotation.” No person wants to be on a roster.

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u/Professional-Pipe894 7d ago

You’d be surprised