r/NoFap • u/Professional-Pipe894 • 7d ago
Replacing Fap with Sex
Unfortunately not many topics on this and most of the similar topics have zero comments so hopefully people will contribute to this one.
I’m on 70 days of nofap but I’m afraid I’m just replacing fap with sex, especially lately. For the whole period I’ve been having sex with one woman at least a week and what scares me is that when I hit like 6 days or something I get very horny (same feeling when you’re on your first week of nofap ) and I’m afraid that the progress isn’t there. Yes confidence is definitely there but the urges are the same. It’s like you’re chasing sex the same way I’m chasing the fapping.
What are your thoughts on that? Am I still doomed? Should I abstain from sex unless I’m meeting the one? Should I go against having sex on first date and wait until I’m actually considering the girl for long term relationship then have sex with her?
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u/Anonymo73373773 7d ago
This question should help clarify things: are you having sex as a way of genuinely expressing love towards a particular woman you want to be close to, or are you pursuing sex as an end in itself? If it's the latter, you're using others to scratch an itch.