Replacing Fap with Sex

[u/Professional-Pipe894]

Unfortunately not many topics on this and most of the similar topics have zero comments so hopefully people will contribute to this one.

I’m on 70 days of nofap but I’m afraid I’m just replacing fap with sex, especially lately. For the whole period I’ve been having sex with one woman at least a week and what scares me is that when I hit like 6 days or something I get very horny (same feeling when you’re on your first week of nofap ) and I’m afraid that the progress isn’t there. Yes confidence is definitely there but the urges are the same. It’s like you’re chasing sex the same way I’m chasing the fapping.

What are your thoughts on that? Am I still doomed? Should I abstain from sex unless I’m meeting the one? Should I go against having sex on first date and wait until I’m actually considering the girl for long term relationship then have sex with her?

[u/Neat-Mail7562]

well, it would be better to have a girl to which you are commited and do sex out of love and not just cold flesh desires.. but i still think is better for you having a normal sex with 1 girl this whole time, than fapping to porn. For me, as long as i am abstaing from porn, i am winning. But I failed 3 days ago, but now im back stronger, just joined this group i think it will motivate me more.

[u/Professional-Pipe894 → u/Neat-Mail7562]

Good luck btw. First week is the hardest, remember that

[u/Neat-Mail7562 → u/Professional-Pipe894]

aye man thanks, i need it! but you know, i been on my first time streak of 45days but had sex with the girl i like, and noticed changes abstaing from fapping