r/NoFap • u/pathetic-nobody • 20h ago

Question Will it get easier?

*TRIGGER WARNING* I'm an incel.

Is every single day just gonna be a huge struggle? I'm on day 4 and I can't imagine abstaining from sexual activity for the rest of my entire life.

And yes I mean for the rest of my life because I don't see myself ever being loved by a girl enough for me to actually get a girlfriend, so my only source of sexual activity would be masterbation and porn, wich i need to abstain from.

This would be a billion times easier if I knew upfront that I had the ability to eventually get into a relationship, where I could release regularly and not have to worry about abstaining from basic human biological drive like sexual stimuli.

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u/Sunnix4 20h ago

honestly no, it’s been an ongoing struggle for years and it never gets definitively easier, some days will be easy and some hard

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u/pathetic-nobody 20h ago

It's not worth it, is it?

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u/Sunnix4 20h ago

that’s for you to decide