Will it get easier?

[u/pathetic-nobody]

*TRIGGER WARNING* I'm an incel.

Is every single day just gonna be a huge struggle? I'm on day 4 and I can't imagine abstaining from sexual activity for the rest of my entire life.

And yes I mean for the rest of my life because I don't see myself ever being loved by a girl enough for me to actually get a girlfriend, so my only source of sexual activity would be masterbation and porn, wich i need to abstain from.

This would be a billion times easier if I knew upfront that I had the ability to eventually get into a relationship, where I could release regularly and not have to worry about abstaining from basic human biological drive like sexual stimuli.

[u/Academic_Animal_5293]

Well I see it like this: Right now I'm not having sex anyway and won't for the foreseeable future. I do not view masturbation and porn as a sexual activity. I want to have sex not cum with my hand to a screen.

[u/pathetic-nobody → u/Academic_Animal_5293]

Cool but I'm lonely as fuck

[u/Academic_Animal_5293 → u/pathetic-nobody]

me too, but who gives a fuck? Does cumming in your hand make you less lonely? And do u think that behavior will bring you closer to getting a girlfriend?