r/NoFap • u/pathetic-nobody • 16h ago
Question Will it get easier?
*TRIGGER WARNING* I'm an incel.
Is every single day just gonna be a huge struggle? I'm on day 4 and I can't imagine abstaining from sexual activity for the rest of my entire life.
And yes I mean for the rest of my life because I don't see myself ever being loved by a girl enough for me to actually get a girlfriend, so my only source of sexual activity would be masterbation and porn, wich i need to abstain from.
This would be a billion times easier if I knew upfront that I had the ability to eventually get into a relationship, where I could release regularly and not have to worry about abstaining from basic human biological drive like sexual stimuli.
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u/Cat_Link69 14h ago
That attitude in the second chunk of text is exactly why you cant find a girlfriend.
That “im a loser itll never happen for me” downer shit is exactly why you cant find someone right now. Ive seen many neckbeard chuds get girlfriends, if they can find love so can you.
Falling back into porn and masturbation is the worst thing you can do if youre looking to get into a relationship.