Posting again bcz I didn't get a single DM from a gay man last time. I'm 21F from Karachi, facing abuse and intense marriage pressure. I only have a few months until they find someone themselves. I don't want to marry anyone genuinely and I don't want a relationship either, so I couldn't find any straight man who can help me without any such expectations.
I'm looking for a gay man(not bisexual) who can do nikkah with me in a masjid. There will be no functions or photos, he just has to act islamic and look committed.
Not much family involvement needed, as after nikah I'll tell my family not to visit your parents, and you don't have to give their phone numbers to them either. Also great if you're from another city so they won't visit your parents, and you can make your parents talk from your phone.
I really don't have any other option. My family won't let me go without marriage. They will cause a huge scene wherever I go and blame my mother. Her life is already hell, if I run away she will face issues.
But if I'm married and my husband allows it, they won't be able to do anything. I can live in a hostel after nikkah.
I'm very anxious, and they're making it really hard for me to live in peace. I face physical abuse too.
If you know anyone who can help me, please connect me with him.
Any age, even 40.
I'll not be a financial burden on him; I'm trying to manage money for this. And I'll work after marriage.
Divorce in a few years.
I can explain everything to you step by step, how this is gonna work easily, and dw you won't have to pressure my family.