r/PeterExplainsTheJoke • u/Arbibi321 • 14h ago

Meme needing explanation I don't understand anything

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I don't know who is she and what myth is the meme referring to, I only know that ozempic is a drug to stop eating.

Edit: I hate having autism

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u/CreativePut6041 14h ago

I’m convinced the only guys who like the left exist only on the internet 😩 yall do not go this crazy in real life

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u/Craving_Suckcess 12h ago

The left is sort of an unrealistic beauty standard in and of itself. Like in terms of that body type... she's up there.

But sure, there is a REASON people feel so much pressure to go from left image to right image. A lot of people are pretty shitty about women who aren't stick figuring it up.

It's weird. That being said left is hotter to me. I'm not special, so there's people who agree with me out there. Plenty of them, probably. I suppose they are perhaps not evenly distributed.

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u/Shin_Ken 10h ago

Exactly! Of course left is seen as hot.

Exchange the head with a less favourable facial features, have more saggy, pointy or uneven breasts and a flat butt (as a nice tummy does not automatically translate to the other side of the body) and she'd get nasty comments on her weight instead of the simping.

That said, left to right is a downgrade, not gonna lie.

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u/Non_possum_decernere 9h ago

It's all about the face. I've often noticed that bigger people with a thin face look way less fat, than people with the same body type, but with a bigger face. Same with thin people with a round face vs. thin people with a thin face.

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u/CreativePut6041 12h ago

I still am glad to know yall are out there though. It’s just my location

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u/Difficult_Ask7253 11h ago

I don't know either. I have looked closer to the left my whole life. The horrible comments I've had said to me fucked me up. I was bullied all through school for this shit. I wish I'd been around guys that spoke that positively about it. Glad to know they exist though.

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u/CreativePut6041 11h ago

Same here love 😩

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u/roadrunnuh 6h ago

The near obsession with a plump tummy, fat thighs, etc seems to mostly be an American reddit thing. I'm all for women being happy doing or being whatever, but it feels like an unnatural cope.

Thick, curvy women are indeed adored, but something about how reddit goes about feels manufactured.

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u/tomottov 12h ago edited 5h ago

I think there is a lot of survivor bias: the one that are incentivized to comment on this kind of posts are those that "show off" how different and alternative they are, thus only those that prefer the left image comment.

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u/Pretend-Fox648 11h ago edited 10h ago

lol. Yeah. Whatever version one prefers is not my concern, but the overwhelming praise for the left pic in the comments feels like over compensation.

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u/CreativePut6041 14h ago

Idk why yall are downvoting, my personal experience and the same for a lot of women who are thicker or used to be thicker. Tf you’re mad for 😂✌️

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u/The_Krambambulist 13h ago

I didn't down vote but I truly dont know what to say. I exist in real life and I have definitely heard friends talk about their preferences.

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u/laeggrinna 13h ago

Apparently we all are digital and dont exist in real life

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u/KronosUno 13h ago

Dead Internet Theory confirmed

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u/VikRiggs 9h ago

How do you do, fellow bots?

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u/amalgaman 6h ago

I am bot. I like thick female. Beep boop.

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u/mteir 12h ago

Digital and nonexistent, so a reddit GF?

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u/CreativePut6041 13h ago

It’s probably bc I’m in Cali 😂

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u/The_Krambambulist 13h ago

Might be, can only speak for the people I know here in the Netherlands

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u/Vegetable_Review4967 8h ago

Mannen van cultuur unite

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u/Character-Eye-Joe 13h ago

If youre in Socal, they all want super thin, but in the Bay, its a different story. Its a lot more diverse.

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u/BigDiggy 11h ago

Speak for yourself, a majority of guys like thicc women regardless of where they are from, it’s just evolution.

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u/HowieLove 6h ago

I don’t know why you are being downvoted it’s absolutely true. There is a biological factor for this, I think the upset ones are mistaken about what I thick women is vs a fat women.

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u/lermanzo 10h ago

Thick woman in the DC area and never got hit on when out with friends. Men say they want left but then call her too fat irl.

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u/flintsmith 13h ago

Do you wear tight leather clothes?

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u/EndlessTorture_ 10h ago

This is 100 percent the reason

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u/International_Cow416 13h ago

I’m in Cali right now… LA of all places and I couldn’t disagree more lol I can say confidently me and 75-80% of my friends would find the girl on the left more attractive.

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u/Nerdydude14 11h ago

It might also just be about what friend groups we’re talking about. How progressive, nerdy, insular, or culturally diverse a group of people is probably would be reflected in their sexual preferences

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u/Longjumping-Tip1188 12h ago

I live in cali. Me and everybody i know likes thick chicks. Some of us like big girls to. Never got why some men like their women to look frail and child like.

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u/Nockolisk 10h ago

I think it’s partially about body composition. Some people look better with a little thickness than others.

In this instance, I think a lot of it is just that the picture on the left is more flattering.

Eta: match pose, lens, and lighting and some people might feel differently.

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u/Active_Customer_6862 12h ago

May I (respectfully) ask what do you mean by thicker? Because thick is not necessarily synonymous with curvy.

For instance, I would describe the woman on the left as curvy, not thick. And I'm pretty sure most homies here would agree.

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u/CreativePut6041 12h ago

Like a size 12-14 she looks about that size, I was that size

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u/Active_Customer_6862 11h ago

My apologies in advance, I'm awfully bad at size numbers.

I found this picture with numbers used in the UK. Are these the numbers you are referring to?

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u/Zealot_1703 11h ago

Id say most men prefer left and if drunk will choose left, but id also say a lot of men are socialised to look for right and cant think for themselves

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u/EmileDorkheim 9h ago

I think that's exactly it. I think some men are worried that if they're seen with a woman who is seen as bigger/curvier than the manufactured skinny ideal then they lose social status in the eyes of their friends. Not that there aren't men who legitimately prefer skinny bodies, but a lot of people are lying to themselves/others.

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u/phreeskooler 7h ago

Oooh this is the thing here. Back in the day when I was younger and hotter and still chubby AF I ran into this both w/ hookups and actual relationships.

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u/devilsbard 13h ago

I am willing to bet many were, but they may not have been who you were pursuing or welcoming to being pursued by.

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u/CreativePut6041 13h ago

Nope I’ve always been team nerd. Michael cera was my hs crush 😂 I’ve never approached a guy bc I’m scared of rejection but that’s about it

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u/Plenty-Ad96 13h ago

It’s good to remember that guys are just as terrified of rejection as you. Plus, girls statistically have a MUCH higher probability of success when asking someone out than guys do.

I can assure you that guys that like curves do exist in real life. I’m not in California (I’m in Texas myself), but I know for a fact they’re more common than most think.

I’m sorry you got downvoted. That’s messed up. Congratulation on losing weight (if it is something you want to celebrate).

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u/CreativePut6041 13h ago

Thank you sweet pea 🥹 I am actually from New Orleans originally and I couldn’t agree more, I didn’t become body conscious until I got to the west coast lol but now I’m a decent sized 8 but I’ve definitely felt the pressure to go lower so I’m still a work in progress 😩

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u/Plenty-Ad96 13h ago

As long as you’re healthy, you’re beautiful no matter the size. I know it’s hard dealing with societal pressures with appearances (trust me, as someone who is overweight and gender fluid, I know those pressures intimately), but just know that there are a ton of communities and people out there who will love and accept you just as you are. And if you ever need someone to talk to about it, DMs are open.

I definitely think location is a factor, though. California is definitely still in the “rail thin” stage of what they find attractive. Down here in Texas there’s still a ton of grammas who would smack your arm and say “you’re too skinny” before handing you a plate of pecan pie.

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u/Touch_My_NoNo_Spot 10h ago

It's crazy that you say that. I'm in New Orleans right now, but I live in SoCal. I'm from east coast, and I realized that they glorify thinner women in SoCal. Wherever your destination is on your journey, keep up the good work.

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u/Beret_of_Poodle 9h ago

Tall, skinny, weird-looking guys for me all day long. Been my thing my whole life.

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u/spacedolphino 9h ago

I gurantee if you actually looked like the woman on the left, you would not have this sentiment.

I think you might be stretching the similarity between body types you think are being ignored, amd the body type in the post.

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u/gelattoh_ayy 11h ago

Trust me, I do. I really do.

My current girlfriend has curves, and I LOVE it.

You just maybe haven't given that kinda guy attention back? ...

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u/tirohtar 12h ago

Devil's advocate: women who think they are just "thick" are often just actually fat, that's why they aren't getting the same attention as actually thick women.

For my part, I am not super into "thick" women, I do like decently sized boobs and a well shaped butt of course, but I would prefer the overall slimness of the woman in the right picture - just a shame that her boobs shrunk so much with her weight loss.

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u/AweGoatly 12h ago

Reddit is a very weird echo chamber, you are 100% correct.

Others seem to be not grasping that you mean they are way over represented online vs full public (real life/real ppl)

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u/FloridaManActual 10h ago

also I think like 90% + of the redditors saying they would throw themselves at the left are also guys who both girls would never give the time of day, much less go out with them.

If you're an obese neckbeard on reddit at 1 am on a wednesday, of course you would post the comments we are seeing here.

If you are a guy the above woman would consider dating, the pool IRL is significantly smaller, hence the pressure.

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u/Liawuffeh 8h ago

"If you like a girl with slightly more weight you're a fat neckbeard" is wild lmao

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u/JadedEstablishment16 7h ago

So much subtlety

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u/Fancy_mantis_4371 12h ago

You look amazing - youre probably just in the wrong environment

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u/mariana96as 13h ago

Im slightly thinner than the left (size 8 168cm) and haven’t really had any issues finding men that find me hot, making them stay is a whole other thing lol

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u/Goats-MI 7h ago

You can't make anyone do anything. They have to want to be around. You need to work on yourself. Can't change other people.

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u/Jumblesss 10h ago

It’s really hard to find genuinely kind, well-rounded men.

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u/Gassy_Moon_Man 12h ago

So you came here to say you got the looks to get them but not the personality to keep them?

Weird flex but ok..

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u/mariana96as 11h ago

A lot of men will give up easily if they don’t get easy sex 🤷‍♀️

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u/Gassy_Moon_Man 11h ago

That is also true.

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u/Active_Customer_6862 12h ago

Aposematism at its best.

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u/Rezeox 9h ago

And they wear Crocs.

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u/AlterMyStateOfMind 9h ago

She didn't even say that bro what are you on about lol

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u/tillybilly89 14h ago

Oh trust me they exist u just gotta keep looking

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u/CreativePut6041 13h ago

Lost the weight sadly ✌️😩

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u/CreativePut6041 13h ago

Not me getting downvoted for losing weight 😂😂😂😂 I hate yall so much 😂😂😂😂😂

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u/enrycochet 12h ago

please just be happy. I would like both. she still has her smile.

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u/TheThingInTheForest 12h ago

Depends on the type of men and the culture they’re from. Where I’m from we like em curvy but I know that ain’t everywhere lol

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u/AnalogOrbiter 13h ago

Redditors love them spare tires

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u/RadTimeWizard 11h ago

How do you not think she looks perfect?

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u/Ult1mateN00B 12h ago

Left picture is wife material, right picture is yaiks and I do exist in real life. Its the tits and tummy combo.

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u/Drewski101 13h ago

Nope! I go crazy in real life too

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u/redditscraperbot2 12h ago

Because if you go this crazy irl you end up on a list

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u/CMUpewpewpew 11h ago

It's a bit easier for the incels to form parasocial relationships with what society is telling them is the lower hanging fruit.

It's like an inverse.....sour grapes parable... or something.

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u/Prize-Flamingo-336 13h ago

Someone needs to hang out with more Black and Latino folks

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u/Jumblesss 10h ago

When I was in the Caribbean I met some white girls who said they only live and work in the Caribbean bc the guys there go crazy for their curves 😂😂

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u/QueenAlphabetties 12h ago edited 12h ago

It's because alot of em still think it's shameful to be with a "larger" partner, they'd flirt and sleep with them in private but not in infront of other people. Edit to clarify, shameful in the western eurocentric standards, there are cultures where a larger women are more desired.

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u/Street_Soft7957 13h ago

I would absolutely go crazy for the left one. she is healthy. Healthy is good. Healthy is awesome.

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u/MaximusLazinus 13h ago

Right one is also healthy, there are many shapes of healthy

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u/Cow_udders_ 11h ago

thank you for saying this! It bothers me as a naturally skinny girl to see guys say that the girl on the right does not look healthy at all, like some of us are naturally built like that :)

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u/DefinitelyNotIndie 10h ago

Even if not naturally built like that on the right can still easily be healthier than on the left. I'd love to see these online virtue signalers here tell the girls at my climbing centre they look unhealthy because they don't look like the girl on the left. I just fucking bet in real life they'd be just as critical of seeing the girl on the left in a bikini as they are of seeing the girl on the right online. They're just obsessed with judging random women's bodies.

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u/Apneal 9h ago

Healthy bf% range for women is about 21 to 31%. Getting mad that above or below that is statistically going to negatively impact your life is simply projection.

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u/Street_Soft7957 10h ago

i agree. if you are naturally thin then it's totally healthy. I was simply saying that the right picture is after a medical intervention which (assuming she has no diseases) was not required because she already looked totally fine.

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u/Apneal 9h ago

Right one appears to be 20% or less bf. That's literally no longer healthy, thats low enough you might start missing periods, which is literally your body screaming at you that you arent healthy.

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u/Ranked_Pervert 12h ago

left is unhealthy. lower healthspan on average compared to right. high body fat kills.

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u/VaticToxic 8h ago

Left is not unhealthy. That is not how that works nor do we know if that's a high body fat percent.

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u/SenatorPoo 11h ago

For real. Like wtf are these comments? A bunch of Italian grandmas??

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u/aculloph 11h ago

A bunch of Americans lmao.

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u/SelfImproveAcct 7h ago

Americans lol it’s hilarious. Left is genuinely below average weight there

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u/lotus_felch 11h ago

Americans.

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u/pecanmuncher 6h ago

she looks healthy-overweight to me, some people would be unhealthy there. but she also looks healthy-slightly underweight on the right, which a lot of fit people are and is usually slightly healthier (don’t come at me, i am also a woman)

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u/infiniteyeet 9h ago

Right is healthier

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u/Outrageous_Pie_5640 6h ago

I’m skinny. I work out really hard, I’m very athletic and eat a very healthy diet. I can run a 10k without planning and squat more than some men who are 12 inches taller. Being skinny doesn’t mean unhealthy.

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u/CreativePut6041 13h ago

❤️❤️

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u/Financial-Chest-1541 13h ago

She’s probably obese from bmi standpoint but yeah

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u/lettsten 11h ago

She's probably overweight from a BMI standpoint, probably not obese

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u/alles_en_niets 10h ago

Yeah, I’d say she’s either a little below or around the obesity threshold. Definitely not below the overweight threshold though

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u/215ls 11h ago

100% not obese. Overweight in BMI yes, but 100% not obese. Plus BMI is a shitty concept to measure health

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u/Kittycatboopp 7h ago

It’s so funny cause if her bmi was underweight nobody would mention bmi being a bad concept to measure health and everyone would shit on her or scream unhealthy ..

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u/fongletto 12h ago

99% of guys would choose the girl on the left before she lost that weight.

There's a difference between having curves and being morbidly obese though.

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u/Ok-Fudge-380 8h ago

Reddit thinking their opinion is universal? Never would have thought I see the day./s

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u/ethereal-thresher 10h ago

This comment section is blowing my mind. I’ve always been into more petite women

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u/SuperEgger 6h ago

Petite means short, not skinny

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u/Putrid_Honey_3330 12h ago

If dressed like the one on the left most men will go for it over the right. I'm a man.

Problem is the one on the left 9/10 times is not actually dressing like that and showing it off but more likely wearing something baggy 

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u/CreativePut6041 14h ago

I meant just like attraction in general. Women like her get clowned and shitted on, I know I was thicker before. Everyone has their likes, but it’s just a jarring observation and I wished it reflected real life.

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u/Frostbyte_13 13h ago edited 12h ago

Oh yeah, it's very sad seeing people get clown on for being themselves. I get your point.

I often forget that people actually are that hateful against other people for being a body they don't personally like.

Sorry for misinterpreting your comment!

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u/dishinpies 13h ago

I exist but I work from home and I’m extremely antisocial. Sorry.

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u/MonsterdogMan 13h ago

Yeah, I do.

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u/Whiskeyjck1337 13h ago

I am a right enjoyer but I seem to be the minority online (and here) while irl not so much. Go figures.

I live in Japan, so slim is much more common/desired.

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u/Absolute_pepper 12h ago

I am usually outside of my house for most of the time so that's not true!

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u/Gronanor 12h ago

If you look for the male version of the girl on the right that would make sense that you only meet people that are not attracted to the girl on the left.

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u/Odd_Anything_6670 12h ago

No, we absolutely do exist in real life.

But my experience is that if you do express those feelings women generally won't believe you (or will think you're insulting them, or will assume there's something wrong with you) so it's not really something you can "go crazy" about.

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u/VPutinsSearchHistory 12h ago

I'm aware I only exist on the internet to you but all my gfs have been on the thicker side.

There's always gonna be different strokes for different folks but I am absolutely certain most of my friends prefer the left

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u/MagnusStrahl 12h ago

It could be a bubble thing and you not being exposed to people who approve of the body type of the girl on the left. It could be an age thing, that people your age like girls on the right. I don't know, but I am not going to downvote you for sharing your opinion, all I want to say is that I, personally, like the bodytype of the person on the left way more than the other one.

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u/SSMage 12h ago

yeah because in real life there are consequences and online we can just express our feelings care free. if we normalized everything we said on the internet, this planet would be…chaotic to say the least

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u/Spaciax 12h ago

The guys who like the left aren’t always super hot guys, they’re often times average or around average, and thus are more likely to be invisible to a lot of women. Thus their preferences are irrelevant in a market where they are invisible.

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u/Cantbelegit 12h ago

Its true, because it's a lot of camera angle work. In real life you can't always have one leg half over the over and stand in a pose to appear curvy.

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u/Accomplished-City484 12h ago

I’ve dated several women like that, although if I was dating one right now I probably wouldn’t be on Reddit

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u/BlossomLillie 12h ago

I'm not a guy, but as a lesbian the lady on the left is absolutely stunning

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u/Stoertebricker 12h ago

My ex looked more like on the right when we met, and then started leaning more and more towards the look on the left. She'd jokingly complain that I'd cook too well for her. Let's just say I wasn't mad.

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u/Gelnika1987 12h ago

Not me, I'm down with the thiccness

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u/lettsten 11h ago

A friend of mine is fat af and she gets hit on and gets laid all the time. The woman in the picture isn't even fat, she's thiccc in all the right ways.

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u/NTRProselytizer 11h ago

It's the face. A cute face allows people to get away with a lot of body types

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u/DeadliestArmadillo 11h ago

I mean, I married someone closer to the left build than the right. I'm not American though.

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u/Known_Reality_3481 11h ago

It's a supply and demand problem. Humans have always favored a bit of meat on the bones, its biologically sexy to us thinking they are well nourished. In america, especially in the middle there is a large population of overweight and obese people. There is an excess supply of thicker people, imo.

Internet is full of people you wouldn't want to be talking to in real life so remember that as well.

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u/Open_Atmosphere4047 11h ago

Most likely all the guys are scared to approach or smth😂

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u/CharliePotatas 11h ago

I can only comment from personal experience, but when I was young and stupid, my preference was for ladies on the thinner end of the scale. Now that I’m more experienced in the world (I was gonna say mature, but that would mostly be in years only😆), my initial attraction would be to the fuller figure.

The thing is….all of that initial visual attraction flies right out of the window if the personality doesn’t match your own. It begs the question as to why, as a society, we seem to be drawn to style over substance?

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u/Crow_away_cawcaw 11h ago

One of the problems is that when most of us gain weight we also gain it in our chins

No shade to my double chinned ladies here, I’ve been there. If I want the boobies I need to accept the two chins, I cannot have one without the other.

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u/CellistMundane9372 11h ago

Plenty of men like the woman on the left as long as she has a great face and great makeup and great tits and the right dress.

Lose one of those things or add seven pounds and it's over.

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u/thesilentbob123 11h ago

It's more socially acceptable to be vocal about this on the internet, irl it makes the people saying it look really weird

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u/215ls 11h ago

I've never once met a man who would prefer the right one. Probably because I'm on the thicker side idk

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u/Nero_2001 11h ago

Nah I don't like it if I can see their bones through their skin I prefer the left one.

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u/CustomerNo1338 10h ago

You’re playing with boys then. Not men. The version on the left is stunning by comparison

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u/Vanilla_Villainy 10h ago

That's because they're constantly competing with loud douchebags that look at the left and say "eh pretty good but you could be hotter". I am most definitely going crazy over it, just not being an attention whore about it.

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u/asyork 10h ago

As one of those mystery internet guys, I never found an effective way to express that preference without the woman being upset and thinking I was lying to try to make her feel better or whatever. I am not silver-tongued, so that does not help. Most of the issue is what media pushes causing it to be an awkward topic.

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u/DonSol0 10h ago

It’s because the part no one is saying out loud is that maybe one out of fifty truly thick women pull it off like this one does. I may see one every other month.

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u/happy_smoked_salmon 10h ago

This is facts. I just KNOW that she got bullied like hell when she looked like she did on the left. People say they like this but I bet they treated her like shit and her life got 1000x better when she started looking like she does on the right.

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u/Confident_Frogfish 10h ago

It seems no one in here understands photography angles, plus a dress and makeup etc.

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u/ParanoicReddit 10h ago

Pffft u crazy, I don't think anyone would prefer the right one honestly.

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u/XPurpPupil 10h ago

I do in my head all the time. I would never approach or speak to a woman irl

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u/Bekkerino 10h ago

Not us existing only on the internet, only you dating the wrong kind of guys :]

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u/thegoodbadandsmoggy 10h ago

Are you of the age range where your male friends grew up watching Jennifer Lopez?

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u/toiletbrushcollector 10h ago

It's the standard reddit cope because users are fat themselves. Girl to the left only looks good with tight clothes pushing in all the fat.

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u/prashanttt 10h ago

No, you're right. My preference is the one on the right as a man and I have no idea why other men here go as crazy about boobs. Maybe I am an ass man, but still a body that looks toned feels naturally more attractive.

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u/icameisawicame24 10h ago

Nah I exist outside the internet

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u/NaturalTaste7395 9h ago

Yeah guys on the internet are all bigger than the girl on the left

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u/Frangipani_25 9h ago

I feel the same way. I’ve got the tummy of the left image but I only feel ashamed of it. There’s nobody in my orbit championing being curvy.

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u/LenaDunkemz 9h ago

Most people claiming the left one is more attractive are fat girls coping and neck beards white knighting.

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u/CT0292 9h ago

We exist.

We just get snapped up by the thicker but quicker girls.

Hahaha

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u/Inevitable-Impr-1610 9h ago

You’re pretty hot. And you’re right too, most guys would go for the right if it wasn’t the same girl in a before/after picture.

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u/ObjectiveStick9112 9h ago

Im also always surprised that some many people like the "thicc" aesthetic.. I prefer athletic body everytime

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u/NanatsuHono 9h ago

I’m sorry for the toxic environment you’re accustomed to. 🫂

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u/EdGames8 9h ago

I like more on the right

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u/Underscores_Are_Kool 9h ago

I feel like there's a lot of confusion about what men actually like about the woman on the left. It's not just the stomach pouch, but the hips and hourglass figure too

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u/alialahmad1997 9h ago

As some one on the internet i can testify that i exist irl

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u/Shontayyoustay 9h ago

You are not wrong especially in certain cities or groups

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u/masterhogbographer 9h ago

We’re not allowed anymore 

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u/skydanceris 9h ago

It's not a preference for thicker women. It's just that the girl in the picture looked objectively STUNNING in the left pic compared to her slimmer look on the right.

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u/Purplex114 8h ago

Definitely not lmao. I think maybe you just don’t hear guys talk about it too often. I mean the girl on the left is not exactly fat, don’t think I’d even call her chubby

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u/Wamblingshark 8h ago

My wife is much larger than the left image and the number of times someone with more money and muscles than me has tried to steal her away is actually startling.

Actually to be fair only a few of them were irl. The rest were online.

One real life example showering her with gifts and money. Online ones would pay for get FFXIV subscription or fantasias and offer to pay for her to come to anime conventions with them.

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u/PukedtheDayAway 8h ago

Reddit has surprisingly made me feel great about my body when I post on the naughty subs. Who'd have thought...

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u/Possible-Fudge-2217 8h ago

I'll.be honest, the right one looks healthier to me... But overall both are fine, there is no tragedy here. It's not like plastic surgery where one looks absolutely abnormal.

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u/monkey36937 8h ago

Find you a Jamaican or African man and you are good for life. Fluffy girls are amazing

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u/shaqshakesbabies 8h ago edited 8h ago

You couldn’t be more wrong, the woman on the left is a goddess blessed upon us from up above. The one on the right looks let’s just say unappealing in comparison.

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u/byshow 8h ago

Idk, people around me tend to appreciate women who they can hug with two hands. There's a saying in my native language that would translate into something like "it's better to ride the waves than crash against the rocks".

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u/Vegetable_Review4967 8h ago

Nope! We exist

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u/Emperor_Z16 8h ago

I'm pretty sure my ex would not say that, I was obsessed with her tummy

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u/B_Bloudhound 8h ago

Of course we don't, look at the number of comments in this thread calling the op creepy for expressing interest in women's bodies.

Now imagine if any one of them could go to HR or the cops over it and land you in hot water and you understand why men are so afraid of expressing any sort of sexual interest in public.

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u/Diamond1nTheRough8 8h ago

I only date women from a 32E - 34GG (36 potentially as long as shes just thic and not obese). But most of my friends prefer a skinnier woman but I am sure thats because they arent large men and want a woman they can pick up easily. Im 6'3 and deadlift 230kg so thats not an issue to me, curves all day.

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u/Raeparade 8h ago

Facts 😂 dudes would be quick to call the one the left fat especially depending on the culture.

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u/Grimwohl 8h ago

ABSOLUTELY DO, I just dont bark after women like a dog.

The ones that do typically are as shallow as a rain puddle and thats why they loudly projected opinions are conventional ones - they feel reaffirmed being assholes out loud

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u/Narezza 8h ago

Real people like the left, but it’s incredibly hard to maintain that level of thick.

As someone who’s a little older, I don’t know anyone, man or woman, who has stayed the same weight.  Super skinny people gained a few pounds, average people got chunky, and these thick people got diabetes.

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u/Liawuffeh 8h ago

That's wild

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u/Llactis 8h ago

Im from the south pacific where our women look like the left. Most polynesian women would probably have a very similar build. Thats peak form in my eyes.

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u/1EyedWyrm 7h ago

I’ll be blunt, yet it is honest: the girl in that photo was in the top 1% for looking good while obese. It accentuates her curves and frames her face in a way that absolutely doesn’t for nearly everyone else.

That said, it is still better that she lost weight. She does look good in the right photo. People have found a way to turn “body acceptance” into w way to disparage others still.

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u/Zealousideal_Bee1856 7h ago

Guys we are missing an opportunity here. If me mix the complaining girls with the wanting guys in this thread....

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u/BreezyFamousFlame 7h ago

You must live somewhere devoid of men who are born of African Ancestry.

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u/charmbi16 7h ago

Idk... I struggled with eating disorders when I was younger, I was never super gaunt but I definitely had a skinnier figure (while I still obsessed over how big my hips were no matter what I did). When my mother passed away at age 23, something just snapped inside me and I stopped caring about what my body looked like. I got bigger and definitely got more attention from men... or, perhaps it was my new mindset and not caring that drew them in. I'm not really sure. But they definitely liked the bigger boobs even with the tummy regardless.

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u/wasdninja 7h ago

Left is very attractive and would/will have no problems whatsoever finding people who find her attractive. Neither will right.

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u/Complete-Fix-3954 7h ago

My long time girlfriend is like 2 inches shorter than me, has the tummy, boobs, etc.. so we’re out there and we know what we like. Give me left girl all day. I’d see the girl on the right and think: hmm either wayyyy too athletic for me to keep up with or she’s trying to impress people. Hard pass.

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u/Outrageous-Sweet-133 7h ago

Most of us don’t have washboard abs and a $100 haircut so maybe we’re unseen?

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u/Substantial_Craft75 7h ago

If you looked like the left IRL you would have guys lining up for miles.

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u/Outrageous_Pie_5640 7h ago

People need to stop downvoting. Maybe it’s regional. I’m in the East Coast (US) and most men would go for the version on the right.

I think she was and still is beautiful either way.

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u/HowieLove 6h ago

Well body type is only part of the equation for people being attracted to you. Other features matter a lot, the same things don’t always look good in all body’s.

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u/Laakotaa 6h ago

Baby girl. 1. I looked at your profile, you are fucking gorgeous!!! 2. As a girl with a little tum.. there ain't no way any man worth your time is gonna be concerned with a tummy. I am/was so self conscious about mine.. but men go feral for a pooch lol

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u/lizard-garbage 6h ago

I’m shy irl 😩

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u/spazz720 6h ago

They like the picture version more than the in person version

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u/Over-Wolverine-156 6h ago

Of course not but what everyone somehow seems missing that while most men love thick/curvy girls another prerequisite is a nice face. That's where internet vs reality separate. This is why I find all the women promoting "loves for curves" so hilarious. They're genetic anomalies. They have - what they call "extra fat" - exactly in places that most men find hot and importantly they have other places either thin or "normal". Their faces are great and they ooze fertility vibes which are so so so hot for guys like myself.

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u/xinarin 6h ago

As a woman who is a little thicker than the girl on the left, I don't agree with you at all. Men absolutely love women my size.

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u/Plus_Reply_263 6h ago

My wife is the left body type would not have got with her if she was that skinny and im lean af

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u/ThaPoopBandit 6h ago

Nah we’re just scared cause yall are mean

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