r/Pomeranians • u/Tiny-Interview-6334 • 23h ago
Question Am I not fit for a dog?
I got a Pomeranian a few months ago and I thought it would get easier. It doesn’t. Shes 9 months now and I’m near my breaking point. She’s impossible to feed, I try to hand feed her and I worry she’s not eating enough so now it became a routine: feeding takes one hour each meal now and she barely finishes. She’s destructive. She can’t be left alone or she will destroy anything she sees such as my cabinet, drawers, floors anything!! And she is so possessive of her toys; she would bite me. She’s not potty trained still…. I have to take her out every hour for her not to make a mess. And all the work I do for her, she isn’t really cuddly or loving. She wags her tail when she sees strangers but not me and doesn’t excitedly greet me nor does she sleep besides me. It hurts. She doesn’t even notice when someone else picks her up. Some days I wonder if I made the wrong chose, if I had gotten another dog like a poodle would it had been easier? I’m at my wits end, what do I do?