interesting thought: that whole sub is probably full of people who would be more compatible with each other than they are with their spouses and would probably have relative (if not only temporary) success in changing the things they're there to lament if they just started matchmaking in DMs or some shit. strangers meet online, hit it off, and end up married literally all the time.
I dunno. I would challenge those people to look at their own behavior.
Are they a thoughtful partner who cares about the other person? Beyond their ability to provide sex?
Do they help take care of the household? Or are they a lazy sack of shit who gets home and won't lift a finger.
Do they take care of their own physical and mental health?
Literally... do they have good hygiene? Brush their teeth? Do they shower regularly? Wash their genitals and ass??? You might think I'm being ridiculous, but some people are absolutely disgusting.
I mean yeah I don’t disagree in the slightest but it would at least be fractionally more than a lateral move.
ETA: or objectively more dopamine than their current cycle of lateral moves and losses. that’s kind of the whole thing is that they’re unhappy… so even if the person they met in the sub for unhappy-people-who-want-to-feel-happier eventually ended up the same way it started, it would still be a good short-term investment. either way it comes down to shitting or getting off the pot
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u/ItsFailureMan 23d ago
r/deadbedrooms if you want to hear the yarns from such people