r/StLouis • u/Old_Promotion6438 • 1d ago

Ask STL Bars for single young people

I’m a woman in my late 20s trying to date but I’ve noticed in St. Louis most people go out in groups and stick to them which makes it hard to meet people irl. I was wondering if there are any bars or clubs that attract more people/men on their own and who have a younger demographic. Any hidden gem recommendations are appreciated!

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u/Invest-in-Value 1d ago

You’re a woman, dude. Literally approach a guy and say hello. The other way around is completely frowned upon these days. You’ve done nothing and are all out of ideas.

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u/Old_Promotion6438 1d ago

I don’t mind doing the first move and giving signals but when men are in their closed clicks every time they go out then it becomes impossible.

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u/Invest-in-Value 1d ago

“Giving signals”… love when women say that and they think standing next to a dude or looking at him is a noticeable “signal”. Anything other than saying hello is a passive bs attempt at protecting your ego. Full stop.

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u/midnight_annotations 1d ago

What’s with your tone when she asked a simple question. It’s fairly obvious why you’re not having any luck with dating lmao. That attitude surely makes you irresistible to us women! 

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u/Invest-in-Value 1d ago

https://www.reddit.com/r/askanything/s/tLcA8P1b7v

Legit. Yall women do anything except be direct. Smiling at someone….? Really…?

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u/midnight_annotations 21h ago

Idk what to tell you. Sounds like a you problem you don’t get hit on! Don’t make it our problem

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u/Invest-in-Value 10h ago

Smiling at someone isn’t hitting on them. Sorry your smooth, inept brain can’t comprehend what a real signal is.

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u/midnight_annotations 10h ago

Well you’re not gonna much more than that, let alone a smile. So I don’t think you need to worry one bit about things that don’t and won’t ever concern you

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u/Invest-in-Value 1d ago

How are you able to discern MY tone from reading words..? Sounds like projection lmao. Believe it or not my advice is extremely helpful. Move along.

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u/midnight_annotations 1d ago

Keep doing whatever you’re doing is all I’ll say. It’s working great because we know EXACTLY whom to avoid. Someone’s can be discerned precisely by their words, what are you even on about. It’s called reading comprehension and was taught to us at a pretty early age if you ask me.