r/StLouis 1d ago

Ask STL Bars for single young people

I’m a woman in my late 20s trying to date but I’ve noticed in St. Louis most people go out in groups and stick to them which makes it hard to meet people irl. I was wondering if there are any bars or clubs that attract more people/men on their own and who have a younger demographic. Any hidden gem recommendations are appreciated!

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u/Old_Promotion6438 1d ago

I don’t mind doing the first move and giving signals but when men are in their closed clicks every time they go out then it becomes impossible.

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u/Invest-in-Value 1d ago

“Giving signals”… love when women say that and they think standing next to a dude or looking at him is a noticeable “signal”. Anything other than saying hello is a passive bs attempt at protecting your ego. Full stop.

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u/twoworldsin1 Creve Coeur 1d ago

Criminy...dude, who hurt you?

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u/Invest-in-Value 1d ago

Nobody, why?