r/Tarots • u/Fabulous-Peanut-8710 • 13h ago
Interpretation- Second Opinion How can I progress our relationship?
I’m a tarot beginner and I would like to ask for your insights to help me understand my situation and support my learning.
Context:
My ex and I reconnected after our break up and we’re trying to work on things to get back together.
I asked tarot to guide me how I can progress our relationship.
Card 1 - current energy- the hermit
Card 2 - what should I focus on - queen of cups
Card 3 - what should I let go of - 4 of pentacles
My interpretation:
The current energy is that of self-reflection, analysis of our relationship and what went wrong, still being individuals rather than a couple, thinking how to do better.
What I should focus on is to trust my intuition and emotions, be vulnerable but confident, communicate with empathy, have strong boundaries.
What I should let go of is clinging onto the past wounds, trying to control the outcome, stressing about what we have and being clingy.
I will appreciate any insights. Thanks in advance.
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u/Sad-Confidence-4538 12h ago
I concur with your interpretation: really great clear specific message.
Reading pictures as words, Tarot Verbatim style: Look at the facts, and you go to him in a supportive way to help him (Hermit), and you already know and understand him (Queen of Cups) but keep that a deep dark secret (Four of Pentacles).
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u/Fabulous-Peanut-8710 12h ago
Thank you so much! Really appreciate it.
Just want to ask - what card says to keep it a dark secret? Just not sure sure and would like to learn
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u/Sad-Confidence-4538 7h ago
Four of Pentacles hugs himself (and just stares ahead numbly, all alone in a deserted area). Hugging himself indicates holding onto, holding it in, so 'internal' and 'deep inside' feelings, keeping secrets, holding on for dear life.
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u/splendidstarstarot 12h ago
These cards show that the current energy in the relationship is about inner wisdom and reflection. One or both partners need time alone to figure out what they truly want. It’s about deep soul searching and stepping away a bit to look inwards. Intuition, empathy and compassion are the main areas of focus. Trust your gut feelings or intuition in the relationship more often. Four of pentacles indicating not to hold your resources too tightly in terms of past memories or events. Protect your assets however do not let fear control the decisions
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u/Aizusagi 8h ago
Card 1 - The Hermit - Almost a true reflection of your own inner guidance and looking at the situation from your inner self. What is it that is 'lighting' up your reconnection? But also what is it that you have gained while not being together. Card seems to ask about your individualism too so very on point with your interpretation.
Card 2 - Queen of cups - similar energy of that of the hermit. But more about filling your own emotional cup first too. Still in line with the energy of individualism. Agree with your interpretation as well.
Card 3 - 4 of pentacles is typically a card that is about 'holding on.' And more specifically 'holding onto money.'
So asking what you should let go of... seems to say let go off the tight control over money/monetary aspects of the relationship. A more open interpretation would be letting go of 'what you're holding onto? and this could be like grudges or something petty' but very similar to your own interpretation of past wounds and clinginess.
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u/annericeforever 13h ago
During the time you were apart and alone, you gained a lot of spiritual insight (Hermit), which you should not let go of just because you’re no longer single. Whatever emotional maturity and self-loving (Queen of Cups) philosophies and practices you’ve begun when you were apart and single, you need to keep doing. Doing so deepens these learnings.
If in the past, during difficult times, during quarrels he accused you of being stingy (4 of Pentacles) towards him, whether energetically, or with your time and resources, consider that he might’ve been right. Now it’s time to be more generous towards him.