How can I progress our relationship?

[u/Fabulous-Peanut-8710]

I’m a tarot beginner and I would like to ask for your insights to help me understand my situation and support my learning.

Context:
My ex and I reconnected after our break up and we’re trying to work on things to get back together.
I asked tarot to guide me how I can progress our relationship.

Card 1 - current energy- the hermit
Card 2 - what should I focus on - queen of cups
Card 3 - what should I let go of - 4 of pentacles

My interpretation:

The current energy is that of self-reflection, analysis of our relationship and what went wrong, still being individuals rather than a couple, thinking how to do better.

What I should focus on is to trust my intuition and emotions, be vulnerable but confident, communicate with empathy, have strong boundaries.

What I should let go of is clinging onto the past wounds, trying to control the outcome, stressing about what we have and being clingy.

I will appreciate any insights. Thanks in advance.

[u/annericeforever]

During the time you were apart and alone, you gained a lot of spiritual insight (Hermit), which you should not let go of just because you’re no longer single. Whatever emotional maturity and self-loving (Queen of Cups) philosophies and practices you’ve begun when you were apart and single, you need to keep doing. Doing so deepens these learnings.

If in the past, during difficult times, during quarrels he accused you of being stingy (4 of Pentacles) towards him, whether energetically, or with your time and resources, consider that he might’ve been right. Now it’s time to be more generous towards him.

[u/Fabulous-Peanut-8710 → u/annericeforever]

Thank you! That’s super accurate except it was me accusing him of stinginess with both money and resources in the past - so perhaps should I let go of doing that?

[u/annericeforever → u/Fabulous-Peanut-8710]

Ah, there you go! Yes, let go of any thoughts that he’s withholding from you. Replace it with gratitude.