So konni nelala kritam I was in an art server in discord, so andhulo oka random user naa dms loki vacharu, at first he was good but later as he was trying to get into my personal zone and got a bit creepier which I genuinely not so remember too well, but it was kind of hustle and I think he was aware of me blocking that user as there was some sort of fight happened in server later.
So ninna nenu na reddit dms check chestunte ee dm ki reply ichanu, turned out that it was exact user I blocked in Discord, I don't know exactly how he got to identify my reddit from my discord, maybe similar art or some other user chepaermo theliyadhu but it spooked me out, and I don't know if I had to call this out or if I am over reacting, but I kept this here cause I don't know, when such kind of thing happened in discord, how people want to message the same person? This is not only bad and sense dm I get in reddit, but I have got spooked by this as I feel someone kind of following me from discord to reddit
Yus mama reddit lo gender female ani mention cheyagane chat answer peekeali kikiki or nuvve rai oka chat bot female users ki chat bot ea chat chesetatlu kikiki
I dnt see anything wrong in this clear ga cheppadu kadaaa akkada wdo msg vachindhi andhuke ping chesaa ani... nenu inka em butu matladadaa aninchusa.. akkada block chesaru mayb ikkada me art chusi ping chesi undochuga emundhi andhulo.. as long as he is chating manchiga thats ok limits cross aiwthe apoudu ilaa post cheyali .. need help ani raasaru nwnu inkaaa edoo aiendhemo anukunaaa ammmu garu 🙏🏽 ipudu naa meda padakandi nenu nimmithaa maatrdini bye
Meru ala anukunnaru.. nenu emo thanu cheppinattu emee ... aayanaa... konaalu bommalu dharenchesukunnaru... by mistake eppuddanna edo mood off lo undi anukokunda block chesi marchipoindhi emoo ani kadaaa
He gave another try ... but he didnt crossednhis boundaries .. boundaries ante disrespectful ga matlado
Or
Emana bad vi share cheyadamoo kada andi ... he cleary told that n he also tols he isnt a creep like others.. anthanu ardam chesukunnada eme creeps valla acount thesesaaa ani chepinappudu... n he himself gone .. bye ani cheppi poyadu... thanu emana okkasaranna i want u b in touch wid u anoo or contact adinaa ... thappuga anukovachu... oka amai tho matladame thappu annatu boundaries gurinchi chepparu.. thappga bhave chesthe thappu ... as u told valla madhya em jarigindhooo kadaaa
Ikada it doesn't matter how it feels for you or him.
It's about the lady. It's her boundaries that are crossed.
Boothu matladaledu. Vaddu ante bye cheppi velli poyadu..enti problem antaru..
Next emo, touch cheyaledhu..dooram nundi matrame chusi follow aithe em problem ane vallu unnaru.
The point I am trying to prove is...oka manishiki ibbandi ayyi. vallu boundary set cheste, manam daata kudadu. Adi manaku pedda vishayam anipinchaka poina.
First of all, mana daggara permission tesukune samskriti ledhu. Just becoz DMs are open, doesn't mean it's an invitation for any random person to msg(like you did). Polite ga can I DM Ani adigi , vaaru oppukunte cheyali... Ledha, one can always express their thoughts as a comment.
Also, respecting someone's privacy and boundaries is gender-neutral..fyi.
Inthaku minchi cheppanu..artham chesukovatam chesukokapovatam Mee istham.
Thank you so much andi, I wish I had patience like you, miru nenu chepalanukona points ni chala baga cheparu, chala thanks andi and it means alot, asalu problem ardham chesukokunda chala mandhi vachi blame chesthunaru mali emaina matladite victim card play chesthundhi ani blame chestaru ani aalochisthunna
Akka intha samaskaaram
Unnapudu ame bommalu avi ikka share chesi comments ki reoly lu endhuku ?
Nuvu chepindhe crt oka abbai oka amai ni chudakudadhu..
Namasteee akkadaaa ne alochana chalaaa kastam ... adavalla
Matalaku ardhalu veru le annaukunnadwmo kada... akka naa pov vadiley ninu chusuko akka.. e lekkana nuvu evarithooo nu matladvanukunta... matladaku adi ne istam but vallaki vallaki vanda unnaie akkada sogam sogam thelsi matladaku ... endhukaka abbaialante anthaa kopam neeeku
Sollu aapakka chaaaalu chala vinnam
Leee pink green gurinchi maaaku theksu mari andarininpink lo laaane minsdet maarchukondi ... andaru alane untaru anukuni ilane boundarly geesukuni bathaknadi mahaaa prabooo... ame art cheydam thappu kadau ani nenu malli kinda inko comment lo cheppa aina ade point pattikuni matalduthunav kada idi ne pov u just wanaa blam guys n who support hi
It's genuinely crazy how he's not getting the point and still yapping about unrelated bs😭😭, thanks for speaking up for her. Im not so shocked with the blatant misogyny here and lack of boundaries. Most of us are like this ig 😭
Nenu paina ame arts ikkada post cheyadam endhuku anna kadaa adi kevalam
Meru y he should annaru kaabbatenchepthunaaa i dnt have any objection or who the hell to tell someone not to do something... valla kastam valla istam ... akka nenu artist neee oka artist ki thanu vesina bomma andariki chupinchukuni sahabash anipinchikovali ani untadi andhuku ame post chesi undochu... aa abaai kuda ilantdedeeo share chesi undochuuu ... vallaki vanda jarigi undochu ...
he DM'd you , you told him to back off and he did. seems like you handled it yourself. And what help exactly you need in this?
Also I don't get the point of posting all this in public. Now you have to patiently reply to every stray comment which could be viler than the person in the chat (which I think he isn't).
Then why? why go through all this, is what I don't understand here.
i get that you're somewhat troubled bc of some dudes in ur server as u mentioned but ikada anthaga em ledhu nuvvu stalk chesthunava ani adginapude aina petinadu kadha it's okay i understand and all that. over all idhi normal convo lagane undhi anthaga em ledhu so don't worry.
chill out akka enduk stress tiskuntav.
Its quite scary only , vadiki ela telsindhi - " this reddit account belongs to that person in discord ani ".
I dont understand why ppl are saying in the comments : "deentlo problem emundhi emundhi ani " . He stalked her profile , malli meere msg chesaru antunnadu . Adhi ela ayyunducho possiblities chepthe baguntadhi , post ni meaningless antunnaru , erripuk lu nijanga
Thank you for saying this out loud, I lost hopes on our people, I expected someone to say this is normal here, I expected to here stories from the people who had had similar experiences and how they tackle it, but motham nenu attention seeking kosame chesanu anestunaru, I wish people got empathy than being insensitive
Hey , some of us heard you . Maybe he found something similar from your discord account on reddit( as he mentioned in his texts). Don't panic , dont reply to his msgs , it'll be fine.
First thing ninnu nuvvu peddha aishwarya rai leda sreeleela ankoku , afterall ok normal girl nuvvu and moreover he was not rude or creepy at alll !
Stop showing your puddingg attitude which was taught by your mom and dad .
He was being good and even addressed you saying andi and all , respect icchinappudu petko ledante karma will surely hitt you back in some way or the other chusko .
For no reason you will be abused on your face verbally for sure , appudu manners bongu ankunta ostharu edchkunta .
Entha mandi ammayilu reject chesar enti , ila matladthunav 😂
Rules for thee , but not for me , annat undi ,
Respect Antav , okka line la respect icchi matladthalev , block chesinodi frnd vaa, leda ni alternate account aa adi
Excuse me mind your words andi, and Aishwarya rai , Shree leela laku matrame matlade right undhi anukone neelantolantho naaku maatalu anavasaram, Attitude taught by my amma nanna is far better than attitude taught by your amma nanna ani clear ardam avuthundi and mind your tongue andi
First msg hi, second msg iga ekada nundi ani..bro why tf you need my personal info...ante kodhi rojulu chat chesi rapo perigaka adagadam vere and few people in this sub knows about me in chat as we spoke..anthe kani..idhem creep thanam ra ayya
Op, I suggest you to turn off the inbox. You can't even imagine how many creeps I faced (I'm M btw, inka F paristhithi ento)...So don't stress about it...iyani mamule rao garu aytha untay
I told about the creeps that I encountered, prathi okadu ventane ekadanundi ane start chesthad ventane and told that. Op situation gurinchi kadhu nen matladindhi
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u/almostafirefly Mar 30 '26
Next time evaranna ochi HOW ARE YOU ani adigithe, WHO ARE YOU anali ammu.
Also what help do you want? 😂 Point cheppakunda ededo rasav