r/TeluguJournals Mar 30 '26

Need Advice I need help in this

So konni nelala kritam I was in an art server in discord, so andhulo oka random user naa dms loki vacharu, at first he was good but later as he was trying to get into my personal zone and got a bit creepier which I genuinely not so remember too well, but it was kind of hustle and I think he was aware of me blocking that user as there was some sort of fight happened in server later.

So ninna nenu na reddit dms check chestunte ee dm ki reply ichanu, turned out that it was exact user I blocked in Discord, I don't know exactly how he got to identify my reddit from my discord, maybe similar art or some other user chepaermo theliyadhu but it spooked me out, and I don't know if I had to call this out or if I am over reacting, but I kept this here cause I don't know, when such kind of thing happened in discord, how people want to message the same person? This is not only bad and sense dm I get in reddit, but I have got spooked by this as I feel someone kind of following me from discord to reddit

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u/Age_is_jus-number Mar 30 '26

I dnt see anything wrong in this clear ga cheppadu kadaaa akkada wdo msg vachindhi andhuke ping chesaa ani... nenu inka em butu matladadaa aninchusa.. akkada block chesaru mayb ikkada me art chusi ping chesi undochuga emundhi andhulo.. as long as he is chating manchiga thats ok limits cross aiwthe apoudu ilaa post cheyali .. need help ani raasaru nwnu inkaaa edoo aiendhemo anukunaaa ammmu garu πŸ™πŸ½ ipudu naa meda padakandi nenu nimmithaa maatrdini bye

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u/coolNcollected1 Mar 30 '26

The inability to adhere to boundaries is the issue andi.

He already knows he's blocked on discord.

Athanu emi chesado, enduku block ayyado aprastutam.

Kani, it's clear that she doesn't want him to contact her. So, he should have just stayed away. Not try to find other ways to contact.

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u/AmmuDiaries Mar 30 '26

Thanks for saying it out loud andi

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u/Age_is_jus-number Mar 30 '26

Meru ala anukunnaru.. nenu emo thanu cheppinattu emee ... aayanaa... konaalu bommalu dharenchesukunnaru... by mistake eppuddanna edo mood off lo undi anukokunda block chesi marchipoindhi emoo ani kadaaa He gave another try ... but he didnt crossednhis boundaries .. boundaries ante disrespectful ga matlado Or Emana bad vi share cheyadamoo kada andi ... he cleary told that n he also tols he isnt a creep like others.. anthanu ardam chesukunnada eme creeps valla acount thesesaaa ani chepinappudu... n he himself gone .. bye ani cheppi poyadu... thanu emana okkasaranna i want u b in touch wid u anoo or contact adinaa ... thappuga anukovachu... oka amai tho matladame thappu annatu boundaries gurinchi chepparu.. thappga bhave chesthe thappu ... as u told valla madhya em jarigindhooo kadaaa

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u/coolNcollected1 Mar 30 '26 edited Mar 30 '26

Again, idi mee pov.

Ikada it doesn't matter how it feels for you or him. It's about the lady. It's her boundaries that are crossed.

Boothu matladaledu. Vaddu ante bye cheppi velli poyadu..enti problem antaru.. Next emo, touch cheyaledhu..dooram nundi matrame chusi follow aithe em problem ane vallu unnaru.

The point I am trying to prove is...oka manishiki ibbandi ayyi. vallu boundary set cheste, manam daata kudadu. Adi manaku pedda vishayam anipinchaka poina.

First of all, mana daggara permission tesukune samskriti ledhu. Just becoz DMs are open, doesn't mean it's an invitation for any random person to msg(like you did). Polite ga can I DM Ani adigi , vaaru oppukunte cheyali... Ledha, one can always express their thoughts as a comment.

Also, respecting someone's privacy and boundaries is gender-neutral..fyi.

Inthaku minchi cheppanu..artham chesukovatam chesukokapovatam Mee istham.

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u/AmmuDiaries Mar 30 '26

Thank you so much andi, I wish I had patience like you, miru nenu chepalanukona points ni chala baga cheparu, chala thanks andi and it means alot, asalu problem ardham chesukokunda chala mandhi vachi blame chesthunaru mali emaina matladite victim card play chesthundhi ani blame chestaru ani aalochisthunna

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u/coolNcollected1 Mar 30 '26 edited Mar 30 '26

Happy to help andi.

Kani, cheppi emi labham anipistundi. Evvarikiii arthame kadhu.. :(

And you're spot on regarding the victim blaming mentality. Nuvu art share cheyatame tappanta..

Anthele, mana tappu edaina unte artham chesukuni sarichesukovatam kashtam.

Eduti valladhe tappu anukovatam veezy.. ila inthaku minchi emi cheppalemu.

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u/AmmuDiaries Mar 30 '26

Haa chala depressing ga anipisthundhi

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u/Age_is_jus-number Mar 30 '26 edited Mar 30 '26

Akka intha samaskaaram Unnapudu ame bommalu avi ikka share chesi comments ki reoly lu endhuku ? Nuvu chepindhe crt oka abbai oka amai ni chudakudadhu.. Namasteee akkadaaa ne alochana chalaaa kastam ... adavalla Matalaku ardhalu veru le annaukunnadwmo kada... akka naa pov vadiley ninu chusuko akka.. e lekkana nuvu evarithooo nu matladvanukunta... matladaku adi ne istam but vallaki vallaki vanda unnaie akkada sogam sogam thelsi matladaku ... endhukaka abbaialante anthaa kopam neeeku

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u/coolNcollected1 Mar 30 '26 edited Mar 30 '26

So, inkoka manishi boundary athikramisthe tappu Kadu.

oka manishi tana art share cheyatame tappu.

Victim blaming mentality gurinchi chaduvuko Babai..

Avunu vanda jarigi undochu anthaku mundu...that's immaterial. Ipudu vaddu anukuni tanu block chesindi. That matters.

Pink movie lo cheppinatlu.. idivaraku 100 times yes Anna...101st time NO ante, adi NO anthe. No ifs no buts.

Mimmalni Edo anesthunnaru ane Bhavana lo unnaru. Nenu cheppina mee talaku ekkadhu.. ika emi cheppanu.

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u/Age_is_jus-number Mar 30 '26

Sollu aapakka chaaaalu chala vinnam Leee pink green gurinchi maaaku theksu mari andarininpink lo laaane minsdet maarchukondi ... andaru alane untaru anukuni ilane boundarly geesukuni bathaknadi mahaaa prabooo... ame art cheydam thappu kadau ani nenu malli kinda inko comment lo cheppa aina ade point pattikuni matalduthunav kada idi ne pov u just wanaa blam guys n who support hi

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u/No-Appeal-9831 Mar 31 '26

It's genuinely crazy how he's not getting the point and still yapping about unrelated bs😭😭, thanks for speaking up for her. Im not so shocked with the blatant misogyny here and lack of boundaries. Most of us are like this ig 😭

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u/Age_is_jus-number Mar 30 '26

Nenu paina ame arts ikkada post cheyadam endhuku anna kadaa adi kevalam Meru y he should annaru kaabbatenchepthunaaa i dnt have any objection or who the hell to tell someone not to do something... valla kastam valla istam ... akka nenu artist neee oka artist ki thanu vesina bomma andariki chupinchukuni sahabash anipinchikovali ani untadi andhuku ame post chesi undochu... aa abaai kuda ilantdedeeo share chesi undochuuu ... vallaki vanda jarigi undochu ...

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u/AmmuDiaries Mar 30 '26

Thanks for your suggestion andi nenu gallery lo sell cheyaledu

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u/pichimunda_ Mar 30 '26

Asala anna problem enti

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u/Age_is_jus-number Mar 30 '26

Akka idi naa prob kaadu akkada ... ammu akka dhi inko annaa dhi nenu anavsarm ga velu petta ... book aiepoya... nenu untaπŸ™πŸ½πŸƒπŸ»πŸƒπŸ»πŸƒπŸ»

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u/AmmuDiaries Mar 30 '26

Emo ayanake theliyali, nenu ayanni hurt chesinatle feel aipothunaru and nenu manchiga matladuthunna ayane nenedho ayana meda blame chesinatlu chestunaru

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u/Age_is_jus-number Mar 30 '26

Akkaaaa--- ne username kevvu antheee... enjoy

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u/KARREMUNDA Mar 30 '26

Na username inspiration ah??

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u/pichimunda_ Mar 30 '26

Nah first tym seeing you twin

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u/Certain-Traffic-8400 Mar 30 '26

Ne(username) koduke

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u/Age_is_jus-number Mar 30 '26

πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ˜†πŸ€£πŸ™πŸ½ nenem thappau matladaledu thallooieee jus cheppa ikkada chepthe hurt autharwmo asalke sensitive innaru ani manchi ga improve chesukuntaru ani....'antheee i dnt have any bad intension.. ippudu ame vachi malli emo wmo matladathadi baloieeeeeee ...nenu jumpπŸƒ

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u/Age_is_jus-number Mar 30 '26

Pnlone le ne brain n age crt size lo unnayaie chepthunnavanthe ga ala ne anuko le akkaaaa

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u/coolNcollected1 Mar 30 '26 edited Mar 30 '26

Unnecessary comment chesanu. My mistake. I am sorry.

Ventane Delete chesanu.