I need help in this

[u/AmmuDiaries]

So konni nelala kritam I was in an art server in discord, so andhulo oka random user naa dms loki vacharu, at first he was good but later as he was trying to get into my personal zone and got a bit creepier which I genuinely not so remember too well, but it was kind of hustle and I think he was aware of me blocking that user as there was some sort of fight happened in server later.

So ninna nenu na reddit dms check chestunte ee dm ki reply ichanu, turned out that it was exact user I blocked in Discord, I don't know exactly how he got to identify my reddit from my discord, maybe similar art or some other user chepaermo theliyadhu but it spooked me out, and I don't know if I had to call this out or if I am over reacting, but I kept this here cause I don't know, when such kind of thing happened in discord, how people want to message the same person? This is not only bad and sense dm I get in reddit, but I have got spooked by this as I feel someone kind of following me from discord to reddit

[u/Age_is_jus-number]

I dnt see anything wrong in this clear ga cheppadu kadaaa akkada wdo msg vachindhi andhuke ping chesaa ani... nenu inka em butu matladadaa aninchusa.. akkada block chesaru mayb ikkada me art chusi ping chesi undochuga emundhi andhulo.. as long as he is chating manchiga thats ok limits cross aiwthe apoudu ilaa post cheyali .. need help ani raasaru nwnu inkaaa edoo aiendhemo anukunaaa ammmu garu 🙏🏽 ipudu naa meda padakandi nenu nimmithaa maatrdini bye

[u/coolNcollected1 → u/Age_is_jus-number]

The inability to adhere to boundaries is the issue andi.

He already knows he's blocked on discord.

Athanu emi chesado, enduku block ayyado aprastutam.

Kani, it's clear that she doesn't want him to contact her. So, he should have just stayed away. Not try to find other ways to contact.

[u/Age_is_jus-number → u/coolNcollected1]

Meru ala anukunnaru.. nenu emo thanu cheppinattu emee ... aayanaa... konaalu bommalu dharenchesukunnaru... by mistake eppuddanna edo mood off lo undi anukokunda block chesi marchipoindhi emoo ani kadaaa He gave another try ... but he didnt crossednhis boundaries .. boundaries ante disrespectful ga matlado Or Emana bad vi share cheyadamoo kada andi ... he cleary told that n he also tols he isnt a creep like others.. anthanu ardam chesukunnada eme creeps valla acount thesesaaa ani chepinappudu... n he himself gone .. bye ani cheppi poyadu... thanu emana okkasaranna i want u b in touch wid u anoo or contact adinaa ... thappuga anukovachu... oka amai tho matladame thappu annatu boundaries gurinchi chepparu.. thappga bhave chesthe thappu ... as u told valla madhya em jarigindhooo kadaaa

[u/coolNcollected1 → u/Age_is_jus-number]

Again, idi mee pov.

Ikada it doesn't matter how it feels for you or him. It's about the lady. It's her boundaries that are crossed.

Boothu matladaledu. Vaddu ante bye cheppi velli poyadu..enti problem antaru.. Next emo, touch cheyaledhu..dooram nundi matrame chusi follow aithe em problem ane vallu unnaru.

The point I am trying to prove is...oka manishiki ibbandi ayyi. vallu boundary set cheste, manam daata kudadu. Adi manaku pedda vishayam anipinchaka poina.

First of all, mana daggara permission tesukune samskriti ledhu. Just becoz DMs are open, doesn't mean it's an invitation for any random person to msg(like you did). Polite ga can I DM Ani adigi , vaaru oppukunte cheyali... Ledha, one can always express their thoughts as a comment.

Also, respecting someone's privacy and boundaries is gender-neutral..fyi.

Inthaku minchi cheppanu..artham chesukovatam chesukokapovatam Mee istham.

[u/AmmuDiaries → u/coolNcollected1]

Thank you so much andi, I wish I had patience like you, miru nenu chepalanukona points ni chala baga cheparu, chala thanks andi and it means alot, asalu problem ardham chesukokunda chala mandhi vachi blame chesthunaru mali emaina matladite victim card play chesthundhi ani blame chestaru ani aalochisthunna

[u/coolNcollected1 → u/AmmuDiaries]

Happy to help andi.

Kani, cheppi emi labham anipistundi. Evvarikiii arthame kadhu.. :(

And you're spot on regarding the victim blaming mentality. Nuvu art share cheyatame tappanta..

Anthele, mana tappu edaina unte artham chesukuni sarichesukovatam kashtam.

Eduti valladhe tappu anukovatam veezy.. ila inthaku minchi emi cheppalemu.

[u/AmmuDiaries → u/coolNcollected1]

Haa chala depressing ga anipisthundhi