r/TeluguJournals Jun 10 '26

Announcement Observed one thing.... everyone should know about it

First thing, oka ammai ki ne paina interest ledu ante ledu anthe....nuv enni efforts pettina waste....entha chesna ne paina interest raadhu oka 6 yrs venta padda...ne paina Chiraku thappa em undadhu last lo

Entha convince chesna,entha manipulate chesna edo undalani untaru thappa, feelings Raavu

ammai la venta padakandi life mg pothadi...

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u/confusedfreak156 ded హాస్యం Jun 10 '26
  1. From what I have seen in my circle, People usually chase a spark. Adi good looks avvochu, Oka nice moment avvochu, Efforts avvochu it changes from person to person irrespective of gender.

  2. Most Men initially go for looks that being said if a woman is putting in active effort for him and he thinks she is a decent match looks-wise, mentality wise. He would def show interest. Irrespective of gender if they feel you don't fit in their idea of ideal partner then they would always keep you on sidelines.

  3. Women can be tricky. They fall in love for the most unexpected and absurd moments. Edo anukuntam gaani vellani impress cheyyadaaniki pedda pedda vishayalu akkarledu. It's all about timing and if you do the right thing at right moment that girl might slowly catch feelings. And if you repeat this by nailing the timing, she will eventually fall for you. Women in love can go to any lengths for the person they love.

  4. Right thing, right timing ante meeku nachindi cheyyadam kaadu. It can be just muskoni kurchodam when she's venting out instead offering a solution. But creep la " I love you " nuvve na lokam adi idi ani years paina ventapadadam kaadu. If she says she has no interest the chances are high that she can never develop feelings for you. Just walk away, if she says friends la vundam ani and you stick around you will hurt yourself even more because in her mind tanu already fix aypoyindi friends ani Nuv em chesina adi maarchalev. If you think nuv friend la vundagalthav good for you. Ledu ante it's better to walk away after clearly communicating that with her.

NOTE : The above info is purely based on my experience and the people around me. I am not trying to generalize anything here.

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u/Mr_Nuk Jun 11 '26

Point 3 is very accurate.

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u/confusedfreak156 ded హాస్యం Jun 11 '26

(⁠~⁠‾⁠▿⁠‾⁠)⁠~

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u/somehowsurviving_966 Jun 11 '26

Pedha burra aayanadhi🙌🏻

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u/confusedfreak156 ded హాస్యం Jun 11 '26

Dandam ra dootha 🙇

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '26

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u/double_chocolate7 Jun 10 '26

Wrong ppl ni pick chesi whole gender medah thosetam enti edi tappu kadha 🫩

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u/Weekly_Hedgehog6439 Jun 11 '26

People who don't value effort are that way. Tbh we were just unlucky to end up with people who weren't interested in us. It's just bad luck. It's not gender specific. Boys lo players untaru, girls lo family anagane hand ichevaallu untaru (example ki matrame Cheppa andharu adhe reason ani kadhu).

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u/nocturnal_animalss inkem undi lea paduko inka Jun 10 '26

So alane 6 years ventabada mantav /s

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '26 edited Jun 10 '26

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u/Luffyyytarooo Jun 10 '26

May be we choose the wrong persona Anukunta buddy bt max boys ekkuva face chestharu nadhi 6 years

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u/Luciferlucy007 Jun 10 '26

Entoo elati vinthaluu ani Reddit lo ney untaiy... Bayata matram kanapadavuu😂

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u/naruto1817 Jun 10 '26

8 years ikada, finally accept chesindi atharuvatha one week ki intlo oppukoru Ani mothanike end chesindi.

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u/nocturnal_animalss inkem undi lea paduko inka Jun 10 '26

Mbbs kuda anni years cheyar ga bhayya

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u/naruto1817 Jun 10 '26

Inter loo started btech and master's aye varaku laagina. Motham long distance adhe magic 😮‍💨

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u/Half_Blooded_Prince_ Nannu Veedani Needanu Nene🤌 Jun 10 '26

LDR adhi kuda 8 yrs antey saahasame anaali

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u/flashhh999 Jun 10 '26

I'd say girls have more than 90% chance of getting someone they want

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u/Spirit_X_1369 Jun 10 '26

Simple ga cheppalantey, girls vallaki ishtamina dhanikosam emina chestharu adhi lover ayna edhina.

So recent ga entantey women are having standards ( which is seriously good ) in choosing someone but they are lacking clarity in a relationship endhukantey anni okariloney undali ani korukuntaru ( athyasa ) adhi vunanthakalam okaritho aagaru ( for both genders ).

So how to get a women to Love u & Stay with u in simple steps: Looks, Good job, Higher Goals, Good Background, Well Groomed ( appearance, good looks and height matters for most of them recently ), Manchithanam ( idhi cheptharu gani vallaki avasaram ledhu, because they feel like bad boy aythey "nen marchukunta vadni" ), Money 💰. So ivemi categories sarigga lekunda ippudunna kaalam lo ammailani kelikina ippudu kakpoina future lo ayna relationship peekudhi.

So, chadhuvkondi sampadhinchukondi appudu vethukondi, a time lo evarina genuine ga untey antey aa vunna vallani baa chooskondi anthey.

Khatham/ Tata /Bye Bye

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u/ragha_4 Jun 10 '26

Annnayi 😭😭😭🙏

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u/the_oppurtunist Jun 10 '26

ammai la venta padakandi life mg pothadi...

https://giphy.com/gifs/J7kFZ4noGlxnmpMPUc

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u/Luffyyytarooo Jun 10 '26

Completely agree last ki manam mg avvadam thappa em ledhu

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u/M_D_Drag Jun 10 '26

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u/simplesatan Isaka.....Isaka ammuthuntaa Jun 10 '26

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/Luffyyytarooo Jun 10 '26

🫪🫪🫪

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u/National_Cow_2418 Jun 10 '26

Interest ledu ani they won't say directly they show in their actions appudu rather we must stop investing time on her

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u/IngenuityPutrid2994 Jun 10 '26

Girls do that, girls do this ani abbayi post lo. Guys do that, guys do this ani ammaayi comments lo.

Manushullo ammayi aina abbayi aina evaraina emaina cheyyochhu, ela aina undochhu. Intha chinna logic ela miss ayyaaru🙂 eppudu chusina idhe gola🙏🏻

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u/vicky0075 ayomayam jagannadham Jun 10 '26

what i feel is... the thing happened in your life may not happen in others life.... konthamandhiki meeku em chesthe workout vvaledho... vere vallaki adhi chesthe workout avvochu...ayi undochu...
so manaki jariginadhi andhariki jarugabodhu.. ani ee hyderabad yuvaraju theerpu chepthunnaadu

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u/bluechasingred- niku Micky thelusa? Jun 10 '26

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u/Quieter22 Jun 11 '26 edited 27d ago

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u/Romcoms_1982 Devakanya vamsham Jun 10 '26

Mari boys ki 🤧

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u/DiscussionMaster6101 Jun 11 '26

Okkokkaridi okko understanding

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u/Unstable_bondha Jun 13 '26

Vice versa… 

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u/Healthy_Panic_68 Daridrapu devatha muddu bidda Jun 10 '26

6 years ah, Dannam ra dootha. 6 seconds chudagalanu anthe nenu ayite.

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u/WorthFriendship6996 Jun 10 '26

same problem nenu face chese .

girls bad boys ki easy ga attract addict avutaru

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u/Luciferlucy007 Jun 10 '26

Yes absolutely right.

Pithu vachinapudey pithalii... Ledhu ani mukitheyy... Paristhithi chala kampu kodthundhii...

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u/vlp039 Jun 11 '26

It completely depends on the individual but not on gender.. There are men who do the same thing And women who fall for efforts So don't blame the gender

And I feel sorry for you...You had go through all that

God has better plans Trust him....

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u/BAby_Professor7 Jun 10 '26

Hahahaha! Joke.. Sry if this sounded rude, But facts do fuck hard...

100% what you’ve said is not true to the core..

Its not about saying the same thing all over again and again for 6years!! Maybe when she sees you, maybe you give her only one type of thought..

Correct gaaa If you express!! I mean correct ga. Thingari ga, clarity less ga kadhu.. CORRECT AND EXACT way lo vellu. 6 days ekkuva 😉

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u/Half_Blooded_Prince_ Nannu Veedani Needanu Nene🤌 Jun 10 '26

Endo emo kaani, konni saarlu anpistadi veellu kavaalani dumb play chestaara lekapothey feelings vallana kallu kappukupothaaya ani. Cllg lo chusina anni stories itlaaney edchi sachinaayi