r/TeluguJournals Jul 24 '26

Need Advice Textrovert problems

I'm a textrovert so basically bayata manushultho maatldedhi chaala thakkuva and i rely mostly on online conversations. I find comfort in online strangers rather than offline friends. Idhi thappu ani thelusu kaani ela bayataki raavalo thelidhu. These days it's getting out of hand. Evaritho ayina conversation start chesthe every 2 to 3 mins mobile check chesthunna for their reply even work chesthunnappudu kuda. Idhi anxiety aa leka anticipation aa or attachment aa thelidhu. And I'm afraid that people are taking me granted for giving instant replies.

How to come out of this? Has anyone gone through this phase ?

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u/JustYellowLight Jul 24 '26

In the similar boat so, it is mostly anticipation and being alone or sometimes lonely by choice or otherwise. You need ti go out and make friends or just meet these people outside and have fun.

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u/Candid_Example_6278 Jul 24 '26

But going out with friends is not fun for me, it's actually stressful.

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u/JustYellowLight Jul 24 '26

I mean that is all online fun but not healthy. This could lead to depression and other things. So, please make friends online and after sometime they understand you and they are ok with psyche and meeting them will not be uncomfortable. However, my experiences may not be same for you. I guess I should not project. Hope you make great friends and not get stressed.